what sould i do i had found a bra and wean he's friend came over he look't at her all smileing and looking at her and set a way from me and i had to ask him if i could have a kiss wean he toke her home and he woud go place and did not ask me if i wont'd to go with him and he do's tell me that he love me and he go's to partys with out me and he do's not stand up for me wean he's best friend was flirting with me and i told hes friend that i'm not playing him so he has to stop and my boyfriend did not say nothing to he's friend like to stop and i do't now what to do.
2006-08-27 23:38:36 · 15 answers · asked by cassie r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and he told me that he woud not some day give the ring and some time's he act's like he do's not care and told me wean i told him i could be prag and i try to talk to him about it he tells me he do's not wont no more kids he has 2 all ready a boy and a girl and there's a 50% that i am what sould i do?
2006-08-27 23:45:58 · update #1
Break up with him b4 he dumps you, because that is what is about to happen. Find someone worth it!! He's a loser!!
2006-08-27 23:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sammy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At age 21 you're a completely fledged person. you have all of the rights and household projects of an person; meaning the only reason she has any administration over you is considering you enable her to. She can't inform you while to be in; who to work out; what to do. As an person you're, in a criminal experience, her equivalent. She's treating you like a 17 12 months previous, and you're letting her do it. If shifting wherein incorporate your boyfriend isn't an determination, then locate an place of living for your self. Then get an unlisted telephone quantity. do no longer enable her make you sense in charge approximately intercourse (it is none of her enterprise - and that i will wager in case you will possibly desire to flow back in time you will locate she isn't being quite fact finished approximately her youthful events) or needing your individual existence. get up for your self and if needed, flow out. it may reason no longer uncomplicated emotions on the beginning up, yet she's have been given to diminish the apron strings.
2016-11-05 22:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, i would talk to him about how u feel again, and if he doesn't listen to you this time, tell him u need some time alone and come on girl, confront him about the bra, and the girl to, not long ago my man would let his mates chat me up as well and not help me out, till i got hurt from it, he has now learn't that he can not let his mates get away with that, but it does sound to me that he is trying to tell u that he does not want you around any more, im sorry if this is hard to hear, but i dont think he love's you anymore, and if he does still love you, maybe it will take a lot for him to realise it, call it off for a while, if not put him in his place, you are better then that and you dont need to go through this kind of crap at all,if he dont have the gut's to tell you that he's with someone elce, he's a coward, and he should never let another women in your house to sleep with her, put your foot down and leave that realationship, be for you get hurt more . good luck
2006-08-28 00:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, wow!! First of all, that was VERY hard to understand. That aside, If you found a bra, he's VERY likely cheating. If he's suddenly acting all giggly around this female friend, put one and one together and you'll get those two. If you need to ask your boyfriend for a kiss, you guys have some major issues. My advise is to break it off. He's obviously doing her too (or at least close to it). It doesn't sound like he really wants you around. Sorry to be so harsh, but I think that's what's going on. Good luck.
2006-08-27 23:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like it his interests are elsewhere. It is difficult to read what you wrote. If he has someone Else's bra, it would tell me he is fooling around. Do yourself a favor and get out of that relationship. There are better guys out there for you. Your gut instinct is usually right.
2006-08-27 23:49:57 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what you really already know. He really isn't your boyfriend and staying with him is making you look and feel dumber every time. I hope you find someone else to take his place and he can see how it feels to be in the crappy place hes putting you in right now.
2006-08-27 23:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by sonsweeney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His actions are speaking a whole lot louder than his words; I'd consider getting ready to call this relationship off and open yourself up to meeting new guys you can trust.
2006-08-27 23:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Honeybee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks like he wants her it's the writing on the wall i think you let him go if he was in love with you he would take you with you all the time i know it's hard for you to see what he is doing but come on you told me whats going on so time to get out good luck to you
2006-08-27 23:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well im not entirely sure wat u r talkin about but my boyfriend never goes out without me unless i tell him to......i think boyfriends should always want to be around their girldfriends but then agin u have to remember that every person is defferent for example dispite my boyfriend hates to go out without me when we do go out and his friends hit on me he just ignores it.u can never know what is the problem if u dont ask him........tell him that u dont like the way things r goin at the moment and although u like being with him u need to be with someone that treats u the way u want to be treated........and tell him wat ur problems r and make sure that they r not just all in ur head.........maybe u can work things out.....but the bra is not a good singh.
good luck
2006-08-27 23:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I HAVE no idea what you just said. But whatever the problem is, I think step one is learning English.
2006-08-27 23:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋