2006-08-27 23:29:56 · 11 answers · asked by tabbs is talkin 2 ya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
going tru the same thing. tell me when you found the perfect solution!
2006-08-27 23:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the adage, "Don't sh*t where you eat"? Starting a romance with a coworker is bad enough if both of you are single, nevermind married. If you genuinely enjoy your coworker's company, ask your husband if all of you can get together sometime. Then, if your husband says yes, ask your coworker if he and a date or friend would like to join you and your husband for a drink, dinner, fishing, a round of golf, a picnic, etc... That way you can enjoy this person; it's all on the level, and maybe your husband can have a new friend to boot. As for your marriage, try to remember that you made some promises to your husband. More than likely, you made those promises in front of your family and friends. What kind of a person do you want to be? Do you have the integrity to keep those promises? If you aren't sure about the answers to those questions, you should probably talk to a professinal counselor before blowing your marriage on some work-related fling.
2006-08-28 06:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by overtical 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stay away from the guy at work if you have any tendencies that you know will hurt your marriage. Go home to your husband and tell him love him. Make a date night with your husband, surprise him with something he would like. Is it worth it to you to lose your husband just because you like some guy. It is OK to like someone, just not to act on it.
2006-08-28 06:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which decision would haunt you more? being a failure as a wife or not taking a chance on a new love?
From personal experience I'll tell you that the Grass is almost never greener anywhere than in your own relationship. This guy at work had better be the-end-all-be-all to toss a sustainable marriage away on.
2006-08-28 06:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is best that you forget this guy and stay with your husband...you should never let this go any farther than friendship...you would not want your husband going out on you...you can like someone but you do not really know him that well...i would not risk my marriage...i hope you do love your husband or you should not of married him...it is not right to pursue a relationship with this guy you like at work...try to put more romance back in your marriage and work on it.....
2006-08-28 06:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay true to your marriage ... find ways to recreate the feelings you once had with your husband
Hugs - Mel (Loving Memory of our son, our angel Zachary Aug 4, 2006)
2006-08-28 06:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a huby, and this boy may be ur friend whome u like. there is a differnce between husband and friend
try to remember wat ur special u gave to ur husband only after marriage .
u gave that spl. to ur huby after marriage ONLY even though u were having friends whome u liked before marrige also.
BE LOYAL TO UR HUBY ,AS U WILL GET SO MANY MALE OR FEMALE WHOME U CAN LIKE
2006-08-28 06:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ignore your feelings about the guy at work. You're married.
2006-08-28 06:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce then u can show your true nature to everybody!
2006-08-28 06:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by reddog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a divorce from yur hubby.
2006-08-28 06:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by queryboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋