he also keep insisting me to be his gf.. and he will takecar of me. waaahh, what will i do? im confused.
2006-08-27 23:18:14 · 25 answers · asked by chic_girL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is married
2006-08-27 23:33:47 · update #1
Get a new job, sweetie.....oldest trick in the book.....he wants sex from you. You will end up loosing your job anyway...this is a no brainer. Also, report him for sexual harrassment, he is breaking Federal Law. You are really, really stupid if you are falling for this one....DUH!!!
2006-08-27 23:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Oh boy,not the recommended action, employment and love rarely have a happy ending. It does sound like you have been pretty close already if he is thinking that way. So It looks like you have some thinking to do. I feel you know this already but it is entirely your decision to make. I hope he is not married bad news for everyone in that case. Take Care all the best,
"Just one opinion in a sea of opinions"
OK he is married that should make it easier,he will not leave his wife no matter how wonderful you are, and if he did he would surely repeat this behavior with someone else.He has no idea what the meaning of marriage or commitment is nor the words he spoke there (for better and for worse) You deserve much more than that,and so apparently does his wife. Hugs take care. ~A~
2006-08-27 23:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love who cares if it is your boss. Make sure that you can find another job if that becomes necessary. Don't count on a man taking care of you even if tells you he will. I have in the past and men do have penises that don't always think properly and there is no known penis repair shop that I know of.
2006-08-27 23:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by sonsweeney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoid the situation completely .. there is nothing good at dating your boss let alone the politics it will create with the other employees. Find someone else to date
Hugs - Mel (Loving Memory of our son, our angel Zachary Aug 4, 2006)
2006-08-27 23:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it unless it's what you want. This is harrasment if he's your boss and you're not interested. You can report him if it's affecting your work. But you said you're in love with him. Do you really mean that, he's 19 years older. Be careful!
2006-08-27 23:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wotan210 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are falling in love with him I don't see the problem. If his advances are unwanted that is different. Sounds to me like you should start dating him unless your underage. How old are you is the big issue and are you mature enough to have a relationship with a man who is much older than you would be my question.
2006-08-27 23:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I'm really surprised at how many young people jumped on this question so fast with BAD advice . More likely this guy will use you and perhaps even abuse you . I say use your brain girl
not your young heart { that he will probably break } .
2006-08-27 23:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're really really into him then go for it. But if you're just a bit attracted to him then don't. Consider that he could just want sex. Good luck!
2006-08-27 23:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your age? Marital status? If single and working, you have a better chance of getting your soulmate who is free, undivided love. What you are being promised now could cost you your job, respect and much anguish.
Christine T.
2006-08-27 23:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by Christine T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and he's single, go for it because age is just a number...
If he's spoken for, forget about it and move on!
2006-08-27 23:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by DJ Fizzy xx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your hart, just dont make a fool of yourself, he may be up for a little fun though nothing serious he may have a wife and find you coming onto him a threat to his marriage, then you may find yourself out of a job.
2006-08-27 23:28:27 · answer #11 · answered by jonibobs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋