When my girlfriend gives me oral... I'm not sensitive enough for her to achieve the ending result. In other activities, I am perfectly fine, but in this specific one, I am not sensitive enough. What can I do or what can I buy (if anything)???
2006-08-27 23:04:51 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I myself used to have the same "problem" with all the women I was intimate with, but after a while with my current wife, I learned to relax, let go, and of course, "guide" her towards a more satisfying finish.
I believe it may be due to a lack of comfort on your part, possibly lacking total release potential with your mate during your receiving oral sex. If you do not feel absolutly comfortable within yourself, and able to completelly let yourself go, then orgasmn may proove very difficult to achieve!
There is also the possibility of "bad technique" being performed, although that is a very rare case. In my own case, my wife was always self conscious about her oral skills and therefore it would show in her "performance" (if you want to call it that). WIth time, I told her to just relax and do whatever she wanted to do regardless of what past partners may have asked to do. She quickly learned to do exactly that, and her "performance" has become incredibly intense simply due to the fact that she does it when she wants and how she wants it, and it makes her "the best" I've ever had just for that.
It took a long ime for me to climax with a partner. It took me a whole month of daily intercourse with my first girlfriend to actually be able to orgasm during sex, and then it must have taken about a whole year before I was able to even come close (pun intended) to orgasm via her oral gratifications.
My suggestion is don't stress about it, just relax and enjoy, and of course, don't hesitate to express your wishes during the act if you feel it may help you get to the finish line.
Hope this helped a bit!
2006-08-28 06:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her try different techniques and different spots, experiment. Could it be, that you're thinking too much about the 'end result,' her jaw getting tired, etc instead of just enjoying the sensation? That may be distracting you.
2006-08-27 23:11:22 · answer #2 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just might not like it. if you see it as demening to her you will turn that part of your brain off. and dhe might not be good at it.
2006-08-27 23:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by brakedown61301 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your best to cry when she is giving you a b.j you will impress her to tears too .
2006-08-27 23:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might use the wrong matters. try another way.
2006-08-28 02:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by zodiaccyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋