Well me and this guy were dating for a whole two years, we even lived together for 3 months, we got married and then when we went on our honeymoon he leaves me stranded in the market place to call up this girl he has been chatting with and proclaiming love to for the past three years to come and meet him as she lives in the same city we were honeymooning in.
When I find out he says it's not his affair but his best friends' and that he hadn't revealed his identity to her because they knew each other's family well. Although the girl who was shocked to know my guy was married claims its been my guy who's been chatting with her. She mailed me most of her chat conversations and the style of speech is definitely my guys. What would you do if you were in my situation? Believe and leave or doubt and shout ?
2006-08-27 23:01:54 · 20 answers · asked by stranger's wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A Cheat is always a Cheat. Get rid of him.
2006-08-28 00:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by a j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Man I have so been there...only we had a kid.... The chat thing, the other woman thing, only that woman wanted my man, even knew about me, they had codes for when I was around etc..... I'd say you have no kids. Get your marriage annulled and make a clean break it's too soon for this behaviour it's just going to get worse LUCK and HUGS... BTW I would even look at damages if your parents payed for the wedding maybe he should fork out half that way if you ever want to get married again you'll have a nest egg.
2006-08-28 06:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u are confident that the style of speech is definately ur husbands then the best for you is to do the same to him.Shouting would not really help as most of the guys dont respond to shouts .try acting a little strange.be online for late hours.pretend talking over the fone for long hours. and then wait! wait for his reaction.if he is cool about it then i guess you could give him a benifiet of doubt but if he behaves like he is hurt and angry then tell him that u too felt the same and say good bye!
2006-08-28 06:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A grim situation just like a hindi movie. Its very difficult to advice you at a situation like this. Choose anoter gay, who is not married and strat your life again.
2006-08-28 06:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the marriage enaulled, divorce him immediately. He's been cheating for over three years.
2006-08-28 06:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpio9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk. Hun you need to leave if he is so insensitive to "chat
' withsomeone on your honeymoon can you imagine "the rest of your lives"?
2006-08-28 06:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by e_deckwa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
file for an annulment and leave this lying bass turd!! Your new hubby plays the player role and should never have gotten married!!
2006-08-28 06:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the phony sob, he's a player and is using you. This is such a bad situation. Leave him, to her. apparently he wants her more than you.
2006-08-28 06:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while the getins good....he has already lied, cheated and now you are going to let him steal away any chance you have of a happy life....kick it to the curb...and be done with him.
2006-08-28 06:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Susan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only shout
2006-08-28 06:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by kidu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋