Ib hate my family so much especially my mothe because they never cared for me and they never understand me..That's why I'm staying with my Auntie for more that 6 or 7 years up to this time. One time my Auntie met a good friend of my mother and gave us warning that if she(my mother) have a chance,she will going to sent me to otheer places weither I like it or not or sdhe will ask for somebody to kidnap or keep me.....
I have my boyfriend and I love him so much and I don't wanna loose him and I don't want us to be away from each other. I'm still 17 but gong to 18 on this next few months.18 is already considered as a legal age and so we both planned to just get married for the sake that we know were going to do it someday,it's just that we make it more earlier,....We're going to marry so that even if my mother send me to the other far places I have a peace of mind that my BF todayt(my husband to be) have the right to get me and send me home again.What do you think?Id this okey?
2006-08-27 22:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Totally wrong reasons to get married.
Don't do it. You have many years ahead of you to grow and learn. It's obvious that you're immature or you wouldn't be doing this. And, when you're 18 your mother couldn't do anything to you anyway.
I don't believe you're telling the whole story.
Just don't marry him yet!
2006-08-27 22:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a horrible situation! Well, it would depend where your mother would send you. Although when you are 18 you are an adult anyway and whatever your husband would be able to do for you in that situation as an adult you should be able to do yourself, except bash people maybe, but I mean more on the legal side of things... If you are truly in love I have nothing against marriage, but just make sure that you go into something like that for the right reasons and dont rush into it its very serious... I hope everything goes well for you... If you are really worried although it would be very unpleasant you could always go under the witness preotection program, but like I said that wouldnt be too fun either...
2006-08-27 22:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you just wait a few months till you turn 18 your going to be legally considered an adult stating that your mother no longer has the right to control your life. getting married is a big step for someone specially your age, people that marry early seperates early because they expected a fairytail, or something particular, wait a few years, i klow you love him but trust me you dont know everything you need to know enough to marry him, take it from me . dont trip cause im just some guy in the internet, take it seroiusly
2006-08-27 22:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by .................. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's a good idea. but i think you should have a restriction order put on your mom if you hate her so much and she'll send you away. make your auntie your legal guardian untill your 18 and getting married
2006-08-27 22:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you ARE 18
2006-08-27 22:08:41 · answer #5 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hide for the next few months.
2006-08-27 22:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooo what a confused child you are...don't get married just because, please wait to grow up a bit more
2006-08-27 22:12:14 · answer #7 · answered by lyndles 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
calm down....
nothing bad will happen. nobody is sending you away
2006-08-27 22:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋