2006-08-27 21:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by lames 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
Leave him without hesitation, don't even contemplate !
2006-08-27 21:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by gpetit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If anyone can cheat on you once then they will again! As for your trust in that person ... It should vanish! You see if you can still trust someone who cheated on you then it means that you don't trust yourself because if you did ... You'd put yourself and feelings first. What is more important? Sticking to someone you can't trust because you don't think you can ever find someone else who will be decent and loyal to you? I know it's a frightening step to take but usually works out for the best.
2006-08-27 21:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all let it be a lesson to not be so trusting. How well do you really know him. Trust has to be earned...not just be blankly given.
As for as what should you do...well that's really up to you. If you allow it, it will continue to happen. How much do you love yourself? Do you believe in "To thine own self be true"? Usually when one cheats(whether it be male or female) its because basically they are dishonest and they want to eat their cake and have it too. Would they like it if the roles were reversed?
You can either make a stand now or resign yourself to being used in the name of "Love". Is anybody worth putting them above yourself.
Always demand respect from men and never let them dictate your feelings or rule your life.
2006-08-27 21:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheated on you once, it will happen again. Think of how you will feel, when he phones to say his going out with the boys or working late... suspicion and jealousy are awful things. It will eat you away and you could become miserable. Don't do that to yourself! Cut your losses and get someone who will love you, honour you, respect you and have eyes only for you! Guys like that are out there.
All the best and take care, B
2006-08-31 19:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest i cheated before on a person i really cared for i mean i honestly regret it but till this day i still havent earned his trust because of what i did i mean i havent done anything other than that one time because i learn my lesson on how it felt lovin some one and hurting them in that way i mean were humans and were not perfect but reallly it would be up to you because you know him better and if you know he's likely to do it again then saldly move on but if you think he really regrets it like i did then give him a chance were not perfect
2006-08-29 01:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by lissette d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I suggest you think about this one...while some men do not realize that cheating hurts a woman in their relationship with them...your guy sounds like he is pretty relaxed about the whole issue of cheating on you..but it sounds like he loves you for some reason...hahaha...so please be kind to him about infedelity with him..or you will lose his love...and maybe he doesn't understand this as well as he could have....but if he has too many answers to your cheating question...break up with him is my advice...you don't want to date some greedy cheater man who will go bald when he is 30...later gater, Erin
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2006-08-31 19:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Erin Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself do you love him for what he is? Do you love him because he cheats or because he has other qualities?
if you like him because of the other qualities, try to think are his other qualities may prevail over his cheating nature.
If his cheating nature prevails over the qualities you have found in him, then you have to abandon him.
You cannot change mature person. Accept him or leave him.
2006-08-27 21:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and ask why..Give him 1 chance to tell you the truth
2006-08-27 21:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by escondido_cinnamon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so trusting of this person anymore.
2006-08-28 01:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave him and find a good man.
2006-08-27 21:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋