Well my suggestion would be too inform your wife of your initial experience, and ask her to try and grip your penis while you're inside her, she would probably have to grip as though she was stopping a wee in mid flow, it may take a while to perfect this to your liking. If you don't succeed between you don,t worry, just thank God you've had an experience which will give you a memory you'll not forget, know one can ever take that away from you. but don't ever criticise your wife for her performance of the task, or patronise her by constantly thanking her should she achieve it.For the first few times make it as part of your foreplay regime so it's fun for both,and you won't be disappointed as you shouldn't be in full intercourse initially,Have fun and cherish the memory.
2006-08-27 21:56:12
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answered by happy 2
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um, at age 12 you were probably surprised by the feeling and perhaps even imagined it more so that way. You are probaby exagerating the feelings is what I'm trying to say. You need to STOP thinking about that sick past experience and start focusing on making your wife happy, not on getting your penis "squeezed" by her vagina. That's just silly and selfish.
Plus, that 18 year old commited statatory rape and you were raped and molested, whether you liked it or not. You should get counciling for that because it OBVIOUSLY screwed up your expectations for sex and marriage!!
good luck kid, and start appreciating your wife a little more!
2006-08-28 04:55:26
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answered by Anonymous
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There are some women that can't control their vagina unless having a orgasms. Your wife may be one of those. Take and turn on all the charm and make sure that next time you have sex with her that she is getting full filled and then you will. Sometimes it is as small as a spot on there body that makes them tighten and squeeze.
2006-08-28 05:01:46
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answered by sscott12414 3
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Are you sure this first girl had a normal vagina in the first place? Sounds like you had sex with an alien.
2006-08-28 04:40:59
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answered by Rudebox77 4
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discuss this with your wife and tell her that your penis is too small for her and that she might consider doing some kegal exercises to strenghten her pelvic muscles so you would both enjoy a better sexual experience. you might also consider visiting the doctor and he can prescribe something to make your penis bigger. lol what questions!!
2006-08-28 04:41:06
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answered by trushka 4
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mate, its the luck of the draw. some girls can squeeze their vigina muscles and some can't.....and some don't want to. A sex therapist could be a benefit to your wife if she is willing to go. a therapist would teach her the method of contraction.
2006-08-28 04:49:34
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answered by jeff the jiant 1
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it depends on the fitness of a women some women know how to keep it tight or m'flex' as they say tell your wife to do keggel excercises it will make a difference
2006-08-28 04:46:47
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answered by grenneyez 1
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Get your wife some 'honey & alum' douche mix! It makes her 'sweeter for the eater & tighter for the p e t e r'!
2006-08-28 04:41:43
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answered by Putt 5
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Maybe you're not doing it enough. The more you do it, the tighter she'll get. Well, that's the theory anyway. Good luck sir.
2006-08-28 05:27:00
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answered by ragill_s1849 3
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Get a freakin time a machine and travel bak in time!!!
I dont need to say that u r a FREAK do I???
2006-08-28 04:58:18
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answered by Anonymous
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