Do you believe in soulmates and ordained marriages ?

Question

Well everyone of us has a soulmate given to us by God in the first place like he did with Adam & Eve. Remember that our days were ordained before one of them came to be { Psalm 139 : 16 }. Did anyone of us can pick out the family we have for life ? The family we get is the family we have for our whole lifetime from God. It is our decision from our free will to do whatever in our ordained marriage and one day will have to answer for our actions to God. If someone wants to take the coward's way out from their ordained marriage through the means of divorce and could care less for their commitment & responsibilities in the ordained marriage well that person can but that person will be accountable for whatever they do one day. That day no one can get out from. Life is not consequences. Life is decisions. Life is too short so than live right. Like they said , there is no pillow so soft as a CLEAR conscience. Remember God made marriage in the first place not us. God does NOT make any mistakes

Also remember God is the ultimate match maker here & he knows what he is doing. All things happens for a reason .If our soulmate makes a foolless stupid
huge mistake by believing in the lie of the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence well we need to let them learn from that mistake and let God deal with them. When our soulmate does truly repent from that adultery relationship { oh remarriage is adultery also } we need to be forgiving toward our soulmate & give mercey to them. We need to have a open heart and don't give up on hope. No hope , no life. That is why people kill them self ..... no hope. The hard core fact is we can not ever compromise the values & morals we got from God to follow whatever the crowd is doing. Marriage is what it is until death. Well I am wondering what other people think of this question and life it self.

Answer 1

i really believe in everything you said. But how do we know that the one we are with is the one God has prepared for us? ha-ha.. i just asked another question...im just curious..

Answer 2

Yes I believe in soulmates and ordained marriages. I am going through a divorce as I type to you. My wife decided that she did not want to be with me any longer and I am heartbroken. I tried to tell her that what God has joined let no man put us under. She just said that she will have to be the one who answers to God. I thought that I was the only one who believed this way, so thank you for lifting my spirits. "God bless you"

Answer 3

I really think you give god too much credit here. There is no soulmate . To expect that there is is a bit naive. A good marriage is formed by people who love each other and are significantly tolerant of each others human foibles. Your religion should give you a good guide for the conduct of your affairs. But please do not speak for god.

Answer 4

I believe in it, but I also know that our soulmate........God's will for us can fail us(our spouse that is). Being human we have choice. I also believe that

God knows our beginning and our end. He knows our choices. He knows our failures.

I believe I have answered another one of your questions.
You are very angry because your huband who was failed in his commitment to you and to God.
My X husband failed too. And he continues to pretend to be a Godly man.
We need to let go of our pain or it will destroy us. God has other plans even when things are tough.
God Bless hon

Answer 5

You are right that God doesn't make mistakes but humans make mistakes every day in marrying the wrong person.

Answer 6

I believe in soulmates,I also believe very few people actually end up with their soulmate.

Answer 7

Yes , I believe in soulmates also. I also believe in staying with your husband till death do you part and through sickness and health and richer or poorer.

My husband has cheated on me several times and I have left him to teach him what it would be like without me and the kids. I let him go and leave me several times for other women and he always came back. We go to church and have been in cousiling for 3 years by our certified pastor and his wife. But of course my husband didnt really want to change so we quit.

He is also very irresponsible with our money and keeps us in the poor house but he always has money to run the roads and eat out a restuants all the time and take other people out to eat to empress them.

He never spends time with me and the kids and he isolates me to the point that i have considered just taking the kids and going to Canada so he cant find me. I get to leave the house twice a month to gee food and household supplies and he gives me only 20 dollars a month cash to get shampoo and toiletries , ect.

I put up with extreme verble , mental , and emotional abuse, so severe in fact that I have actually went to a womens shelter and stayed there for a while.And yes he gets physical too, but he has never hit or punched me so it isnt really counted as physical abuse? is it, because it only happens once in a blue moon and doesnt really cause me any real pain. But he came begging me that he would change and he didnt see what the big deal was anyways, because we were married and we should stay together for the kids and for God. I agreed and went back.

And i have also cosidered just leaving him and never remarring or ever wanting to be with a man , for comfort , sercurity, love...I mean after all God never meant for us to be alone...but He doesnt want us to devorce either...no matter what...because I will sin and i will want a man for love...and mabey even want to marry a man that will love me.

So to keep my self from burning in hell i stay with my husband and let him teach my girls that it is normal for a man to treat a woman this way ...because that is the way that men are. And my boy will become his father. I pray to God not.

So here I am , married to a man that hates me , himself, the world, God, and his own kids. He will burn in hell because he is evil.
I will stay with this evil man ...so that I wont be tempted to commit adultry..and I will go to heaven...

This is not a made up story, I am real, my life is real and my husband is real.

I just wanted to post this on here along with your comment ...because frankly , I want to know what you will say to me about staying with my husband now that you know the truth? Do I stay and pray him into heaven and set an awesome Christian example for my kids that you obey at all costs.
Answer me this, I really want to know, why would God want me to stay and keep my kids in this...it is turning them into people that God doesnt want them to be. They are angry , hurt, mistrusting, nonbeliveing, rebellious, sad and almost wasted at heart , weary at soul, and crippled at mind. Answer me that.