Probably not, it isn't your wife's fault you guys have a creepy neighbor. Have you talked to your wife about it? I'm willing to bet she is aware of this guy and is embarassed and maybe even a bit frightened by the situation. Guys who just stare are not right in the head.
It isn't unusual for someone to think a neighbor woman is good looking, but it is wrong (and stupid) to stare at her to the point where her husband notices. I think you need to make him aware that you know he is staring too much and that you are evaluating the situation.
My advice is talk to your wife, after all, this siutation involves her as well, she should be a part of the solution. One thing I would consider doing is when he starts to stare, go outside and both of you stare back at him. (if your wife is uncomfortable doing this, don't make her do it. It won't be as effective if she looks frightened or uncomfortable and she may look like a potential victim, in that case it would be better if you did it yourself)
Sometimes just a mild challenge like that will bring a guy to his senses and he will realize that he HAS been acting creepy and that will be all it takes for him to stop staring.
Doing it without an ANGRY confrontation is probably better than getting all puffed up and getting into a fist fight.
2006-08-28 00:22:05
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answered by glenbarrington 7
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You should be proud that your missus is attractive. On the other hand, is she smiling back? Of course the way he is looking at her and your wife's reciprocating may indicate if there is more to it than just innocent fleeting glances by your next door neighbour. One day you might be surprised if the common fence goes missing
2006-08-28 04:21:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Unless your wife is also watching him I would say your neighbor is either a creepy stalker or has the hotts for your wife.
2006-08-28 04:10:34
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answered by Kristina 2
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There might be in the near future.
2006-08-28 12:23:35
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answered by Anonymous
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does ur wife watch him back? try installing a camera in ur house and the garden area....should be able to nab that *****....
2006-08-28 04:15:12
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answered by Lambada 2
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Maybe your neighbor just thinks she's hot, that isn't her fault.
2006-08-28 04:22:55
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answered by Kerry 7
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No, but hes probably picturing her naked
2006-08-28 04:11:38
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answered by Vince 1
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ask " why dose he keep wathing you" if she freezes up ther probably is
2006-08-28 04:15:02
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answered by nessyvanny 2
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