Guys I need help. Why do guys say that they like you. Or they say that they want to be with you. But then if you dont call them or your is turned off for a day or two. They freak out like if were together. But when they say that they want to be with, then they use such a stuiped line. Like I want to be with you its just hard cause this other girl that I like I found out that she likes me. And I really dont know what to do???????
2006-08-27 20:52:37 · 7 answers · asked by littlesiscrys15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They just wanna make sure they have a standby in case U leave them in the lurch.
2006-08-27 20:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by joseph s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can be very unpredictable sometimes. They could be very sweet one minute and very naive the next. They could say things they don't really mean and make it sound like it came from the bottomest part of their heart. Most men are player. They play around, fool around.. and if girls do the same, they freak out. Men are mean, and we just have to play the game that they play...that's how we get even.
2006-08-28 03:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by jen_good girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a guy, you need to grow up and realize you are being used! You need to learn the quick way that guys say they like you to get what they want, and when they do, its good-bye girlfriend. Honey they are NOT freaking out, they are trying to cover their a-s and stay on the good side with you. They like to string along all the girls they can. This way they always have some girl to fall back on in case it don't work out with another. In other words they want to be with you IF they can't get someone better. Don't buy that crap! If someone wanted to be with you, then they would be with you, right? You not calling them, don't show you have an interest in them that they wish to have. It's called possesive behavior. Don't play games with guys, because if you are truly interested in a guy, he needs to know this, and it wouldn't break your finger to call would it? Sounds like he really does have an interest in someone else, and if you don't want to loose him to someone else, then call for gods sake! What are you accomplishing by not calling? The answer is clear, you are not that interested in him. If you have a guy that you are interested in, you need to act like it. If I had a girl that didn't call me or get in touch with me, then I would have me someone else on the line too. Right! I wouln't want to miss out on someone real nice while waiting days to hear from you. There's competition out there, and you will be the one freaking out when they drop you like a bad habit! Good Luck!
2006-08-28 04:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because the ones telling you that lump of doo doo are PLAYERS honey!!! Not all are like that, but the majority are... find you one of the rare ones to like and don't stroke the ego's of the ones feeding you a line of malarkey!!
2006-08-28 03:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by someone s 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a built in mentality of the guys by mother nature you cant do anything about it
2006-08-28 03:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by akband 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found the same thing!!!!! I guess its like a car, they want a test drive if you know what I mean and then that's about it
2006-08-28 03:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
men say things like that because they are stupid 70% of the stuf they say is dumb or insulting then afterwards they "claim" they are joking around.
2006-08-28 03:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by nessyvanny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋