My friend is driving me NUTS?

Question

I hate to talk about my friend like this, but the way she acts is really starting to wear on my nerves. She does something to this girl who I happen to be an okay friend with, and when I ask her what she did, she won't tell me. Then a few days later she calls and brags to me about these two guys who like her and I've made it clear that I really don't care if she's got guys liking her or whatever but she still brags to me about it. I don't want to end our two year friendship over this, but it's coming to the point where I want to cuss her out everytime she calls me. HELP!!

Answer 1

Maybe she fells a little competitive with you. As for the situation with your other friend ask her what she did to her. Then sit down some where neutral with your friend who is making you crazy and tell her how she is making you feel, ask her why she feels the need to do this to you and your other friend. Reassure her that you do want her (and think of her) as a friend. Explain to her that her behavior is having a negative effect on your friendship. Let her talk to you without any fear of losing you as a friend. I'm sure you can work out your troubles and remain friends. Then maybe you won't feel like ripping her a new one.
Good Luck!

Answer 2

LOL, I Have Male And Female Friends Like That...I Just Tell Em' Shut Tha F U C K Up...It Usually Will Get To Them And They Understand After The First Couple Times.

Answer 3

Just like you disagrees with her behavior, you should be able to tell her whats on your mind as well...especially about her behavior. If she objects then let her know that you are not interested in her exploits. If she insists then walk away or tell her you are going to hang up...and do. This would not be an abnormal way for true friends to act. Otherwise what would you be getting out of the friendship?

I'll tell you what...USED!

Answer 4

n 2 years or ten years......if she is coniving and immature I don't
care. I would give myself time to re-think the relationship, what
are YOU getting out of it?? And what's she getting from it ? Plus
if you don't see or talk to her for awhile, you'll know whether you
still want to be friends or not. I always think about stuff first, let it
pink pong around in my head, ya know? Then I make a decision.
Then I decide when to take action. At my leisure....aaahh.

Answer 5

you comprehend to boot as I try this some human beings get NUTS whilst pregnant...i think of it somewhat is hormonal...became she this lots of a nut until now the being pregnant? If no longer, then basically humor her until after the toddler comes, and whilst the little guy is spitting up and pooping by using all the clothier cloths you could all have a sturdy chuckle!

Answer 6

Sounds like a real self-centred *****, if you ask me. Too self involved, she probably won't be that upset by the ending of your friendship, she'll more than likely end up blaming you for the whole deal, anyway.
Life's too short to waste our energy on people who drain it.

Answer 7

Why not have a sit down and some plain talk. Start out tactful, but if she isn't feeling it, be direct.

Answer 8

Braggards suck don't they. I'd tell her about "someone else" who does that and how much it annoys you, and maybe she'll put two and two together and learn to shut up.

Answer 9

ahh yes i had friends like that... and i dont want to ignore them... i would just talk to her... and tell her that she is irking you ... maybe she might get mad but if she is a true friend then she will understand

Answer 10

go ahead cuss her out, youll feel better