I have been with my daughter's father sence I was 17. I am now 20 and have realizied how different we really are from each other. He IS the greatest thing that has happend to me, and he loves me so much. I catch myself smarting off and being rude, tring to make desprate attempts for him to realize I am unhappy. Unfortunatly he doesn't see. I am going crazy over the fact that I am still young and not happy with him in a relationship, but yet, he puts up with my crap and loves me more than anyone before. Having a great guy but not being "in love" with him is terrible....Please give advise...
2006-08-27 20:00:50 · 7 answers · asked by Lana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You refer to him as your daughters father, not your boyfriend. That leads me to believe that she is the best thing to happen to you, not him. If you want him to know what your thinking then you will have to tell him and if your afraid to do that then your afraid of the consequences. Make a plan, make it happen. All three of you will be happier:)
2006-08-27 20:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by BK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you're probably just not "in love" with him because he's so nice to you! He needs some buddies to get him to butch up and stop being so attentive. And he needs another woman to get his interest up so he doesn't think of you so much.
If you're really not interested in him anymore, find a better woman for him! That will prove that you are REALLY not interested in him.
If you can't do that, or it would make you jealous, then maybe he's just smothering you.
2006-08-27 20:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by goof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are realizing you missed out on your youth and feel trapped. It's so sad that you had a child and now find out you don't love him. Tell him!! He sounds like a wonderful guy and by the time you realize that and want him back, he could be with someone who really appreciates him.
2006-08-27 20:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. I know it will break his heart, but in the long run it will be so much better than the charade that is going on now. At first he may hate you but when all is said and done, he will thank you.
2006-08-27 20:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by copaceticlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you mean to tell me you have a loving and supportive boyfriend? What a jerk!
Seriously, do the poor guy a favor and dump him. You clearly do not deserve such a man.
2006-08-27 20:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the turth that u need more time to be alone. best achieve u should go back to school and have a better education the furthur is still ahead of u. good luck w/ everything
2006-08-27 20:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, tell him.
If you don't love him, tell him.
Whatever you feel, tell him.
2006-08-27 21:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by Flexscan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋