my supposenly best friend doesnt know at this point that i know what happened between the two of them.my husband did wait for a whole to tell me.and since then,he has turn his life over to god.he is a good man and has never cheated before thats why i have forgiven him so easily.i have been going to her house for the past year and she has said nothing and been acting as a friend.
2006-08-27 19:57:29 · 24 answers · asked by katier88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I commend you that you were able to forgive your husband. You have a bigger heart than most. Wow....with friends like that you don't need enemies!! Keep her away from your husband. Nothing good will come of it if you don't.
2006-08-27 20:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are bright enough to forgive the adulterer, then you should also forgive his scumbag partner. it wasnt only her fault. you know the old saying, it takes two to tango. so...why forgive one and not the other? and what is waiting for a whole? just curious? see how long the turning over life to God thing last.
2006-08-28 03:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by evanlah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough situation there. If you have forgiven him why shouldnt you forgive her. After all he is the one that took the vow with you and not your best friend.
2006-08-28 03:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mista Cee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a good christian 'which you sound' you should know it's your duty to forgive. If you're not forgive her as well
If you can forgive your husband surely you can forgive a friend.
2006-08-28 03:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive her but not befriend again. It so hard to trust a thief again. Beside doing it with your husband means she doesnt consider you as a bestfriend at lot.
2006-08-28 03:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by simplegal170905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes 2. if you can forgive 1 you should forgive the other.
2006-08-28 03:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should forgive her because holding a grudge is bad for your physical and mental health and probably she regrets what she has done, but do yourself a favor, keep her far far away from you and your husband!!!!!!
2006-08-28 03:06:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a forgiving person, then forgive them. If you're going to bring God into it, that big pussy says to forgive everybody, so, do whatever you want. You know what's right.
2006-08-28 03:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Definitely forgive him if he doesn't cheat again.
2. Forgive her, but don't be her friend. That was wrong for what she did.
2006-08-28 03:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by p_boxter03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no ,,,u should never forgive her.If u forgive her, she would think it as your weakness.And once again she will try to ..........
she is a betrayer...a poison in friendship nd life.Teach her in a way so that she can be repented.once she cry down on your knees and confess then only you may consider,,Thats all..have a good one.
2006-08-28 03:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by fire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋