i am not in school anymore. i am gettin my g.e.d., i am engagged to the man of my dreams.. he is going to collage down south, i am verry proud of him. he works his *** off. but this last weekend one week ago. there were alot of new ppl that moved in on campus.well when me and this man got together. i dropped all my friends at school. cuz that was the only place i got to see him at. and i spent all my time with him.(no regrets) but anyways when these new ppl moved in . he promised me i would not get put on the back burnner. and now i totaly have. he dosent even notice it. his friends get to see him more then i do. now we have put a time limit on how long we can talk each night. only one hour when his friends dont even have a time limit. well i fill hert and blown off. why if i am his future wife.do i have a time limit to talk to him>>>? its crap. i've cried to him each night to talk to me. but he blows me off like im not important. how do i get him to tlk to me. and not blow me off
2006-08-27 19:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by cRaZy ~N~ lOvE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It comes with maturity...It's called rejection.
If he doesn't want to be with you at this stage of your lives because of his friends, it can only get worse. Time to begin thinking about moving on with your life and be with someone who cares about you and wants to be with you, every minute of every day.
Get direct answers to your differences before you get married...
2006-08-27 19:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's getting caught up with this lifestyle, and it's taking some time to adjust a bit. Give it about a week-3weeks until you completely go bananas. If he doesn't realize what he's doing you will really need to talk to him.
If he's not willing to talk, or take a few minutes or so to talk to you about this, then I would take a break. You two are living two different lifestyles. Never get engaged until you have EVERYTHING in order. Because everything before college was fine, right? Well it's different now, and it's basically it's a new life. Things will change, whether it's between the two of you or not.
But to get him to talk to you would to just show your concern. If you show him how much you care, maybe he'll lighten up. But I wouldn't worry about it too much, for it may be like this the whole school year. He's going to be busy! Try not crying, it makes a lot of guys upset, so they close up and try to forget about things.
Do you see him? or is this just over the phone? If i'm reading correctly there is some distance between the two of you. If so, he's seeing his friends more because he lives near them. So tell him, that because he gets to see them, that there should be more time to talk between the two of you.
Goodluck with everything!
2006-08-28 02:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think it is going to get better. Get your GED and get in college or a trade school.
Do you have a ring yet? Have you set a date?
Is he going to finish school first ?
Do not be an idiot, if you have to drop your friends for this man then you might want to rethink this relationship.
You said he was the man of your dreams, are you sure you are the woman of his?
2006-08-28 02:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by chick a dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not his type. Get your education first.
2006-08-28 02:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha u r too fall in love that persion u need sex with him then u u r self will satisfied
2006-08-28 02:39:07 · answer #5 · answered by myajitin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with him, he's probably cheating on you too.
2006-08-28 02:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by phe_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋