i met this guy in february and we tried to have sex everything was going all good the kissing was great and i thought i was going to get the rest of the package and get sum *** but when it came right down to it he couldnt even get it up and he tried so hard to get his penis inside of me but i figured i would help out by grabbing it with my hand and it was still soft and limp including tiny so i got tired of him trying so i asked him to stop because it was going nowhere so we just layed there and cuddled i was so dissapointed. then the second time when we was together it he was inside of me for like 5 seconds and it was hard then it just became limp again and as always he tried again and i told him to stop but instead he thought he would make it up to me by going down on me and i told him he didnt have to do that becoz i felt self consious of him smelling me why do you think he goes limp . he tells me its becoz he has whiskey dick meaning he drank too much and besides that he smokesweed
2006-08-27 19:29:54 · 16 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It isn't you. It's called erectile dysfunction. He's burnt out his ***** with too much booze. Marijuana has the same effect. Tell him to quit the weed and the alcohol, and have him talk to his dr. If you have a hard time with his lack of performance, and you really care about each other, he has an obligation to take care of this problem to make you BOTH happy.
2006-08-27 19:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol and weed can make an iron rod become a cold french fry and I know that from experience. If he really wanted to satisfy you sexually, he would opt not to drink or smoke when he knows that you are in the mood for some loving. If he can't or won't give up the alcohol and weed, he's not worth the time or effort. You will be disappointed again. Alcohol and weed can be tricky. They can turn some men into Superman in the bedroom and make others into the Joker. You deserve to be sexed in a sober state anyway. This limpness is a sign that there are larger problems on the horizon. Don't be sucked into this. He had his chance and he wasn't UP to the challenge. No one likes to be frustrated like this repeatedly and you don't have to be. Also, he may have a problem with becoming too excited and blowing his momentum before he really needs it. If you must try again, try to take things very slowly. It make take several more sessions. You may have to do some heavy petting on one occasion. Then let him go downtown on another. Work your way up to the prize that you have waiting and find out what turns him on the most. Let this be a discovery time. But if the drinking and smoking persist, the forecast is bleak. Sorry...but good luck in your endeavors.
2006-08-28 09:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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i met this guy in february and we tried to have sex everything was going all good the kissing was great and i thought i was going to get the rest of the package and get sum *** but when it came right down to it he couldnt even get it up and he tried so hard to get his penis inside of me but i...
2015-08-18 18:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Damaris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 08:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to fix the problem and it is a problem or will be once you start to realize that you don't like as much as you thought. There are plenty of doctors who would love to cure you and your mans limp dick. Try AA for one!
2006-08-27 19:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by sonsweeney 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well. tell him to lay off the drugs and booze for a bit and see how it goes.
or it could be a real condition. he could have a disease that causes men to not get hard when they want to. he probably hasn't told you about it cause it's embarressing for men to talk about.
read more about it.
2006-08-27 19:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you must really like him--you're telling the entire Yahoo country that he goes limp on you!! And if that weren't bad enough, you tell us all about his drinking and pot habits!! You're the lowest of the low--is this some sort of payback that you're giving him because you're too stupid to say that you're damn upset with him?! You're demeaning a man at his most vulnerable place, between his legs!! Who could stay hard with a batch like you?!! What are you gonna do next, drown a cat or something??! You're a batch with a capital 'C'!!
2006-08-27 19:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rebooted 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
he is probably not as attracted to u. Or maybe u just don't do it for him. I have never had this problem with a man. take a shower and then let him go down on you. However u do sound a little young. Maybe you should wait a while. Why deal with someone who smokes and drinks all the time. Been there done that, that is so unattractive. Eww.
2006-08-27 19:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tonya 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
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2014-07-18 07:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it's not you, it's him.
Don't let him drink before, this happens to guys alot.
2006-08-27 19:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋