Recently i have had sex with this guy who has been my friend for five years and still we had sex couple mths ago and i had a orgasm for the first time but with all the other guys i been with i have never had one with them . and he was the same just about size then my former sex pals. but now hes in a relationship with sum otha girl and i made it a point not to have sex with him anymore just because i thought it would ruin our friendship and that means more to me than sex. what do you think about this seriuos input and answwers only!!!!!!thanx Ps im 23 years old and have 8 other partners besides him.
2006-08-27 19:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
The stimulation is very much higher with someone that u love - an old, close friend.
This inturn helps many women get to higher realms of pleasure, once doing it with someone they care abt. They feel more connected, safer and much more hot.
Are u saying that u had an orgasam from penetration alone? Well, this could be why u havnt had one so far. Its almost impossible for a women to get to an orgasam from penetration in her first time. Women need clitoral masterbation as well, just like guys need the stimulation of the top of their penis to orgasam for the firs time, wich is the same as the clitoris for a women, except that the clitoris is twice as sensitive, but much smaller (for general knowledge).
The reason u had an orgasam is because u had sex with someone that u know and love and/or because u have been getting more clitoral stimulation as of late.
Obviously if u get clitoral simulation during penetration, u can have an orgasam every time, or of course with oral sex.
Do u not want to be his girlfriend but only remain his friend? Obviously u feel very positively abt him, and uve had sex, why not bump up ur relationship and become a couple? It wont ruin ur relationship, it will change it for the better and inhance ur experience together.
If it bothers u that he is with this other girl, then obviously u want more with him then just a friendship, and if he had sex with u he may want the same. Just the fact that u had sex means u want to be with him on some level.
You seem un-educated on the subject for ur age.
Perhaps u should try reading up on sexually related topics, such as orgasams on the internet. Google it and ull find thousands of sites dedicated to telling u whatever u wish to know.
2006-08-27 19:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that you have orgasms with him because you guys actually care and know each other. I know that in the times that my boyfriend and I have broken up, I have slept with two other guys and neither of the two made me have an orgasm or had made me feel the way that my boyfriend made me feel. I always went back to my boyfriend. I think that when you know a guy and he knows you, he puts a different kind of effort into it. When a guy doesnt really know you or care for you he only cares about himself. And I am sure that you know what I mean. I would say keep doing it with your friend, why not...... I mean it is not hurting anyone.
2006-08-27 19:25:48 · answer #2 · answered by gm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women get orgasm .. not becos of actual penetration .. but its much (not completely) driven by your thoughts and fantasy ..
Perhaps, its an exciting fantasy to you .. actually sleeping with a close friend, sort of like getting a high from committing a crime. a adrenaline rush .. letting to better Sex eventually.
But, still an advice, cut the list of sleeping partner .. it ruins your reputation and life. You will realize in days to come, when you bump into them later in your life and the bad reputation will never go away.
2006-08-27 20:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you think of him as "a friend" it is less threatening to have sex with him and so you are more relaxed and able to have an orgasm.
As for EIGHT other partners...you might want to go to a sex addicts meeting.
2006-08-27 19:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to the girl who said u might want to go to sex addict meetings i think when she said 8 she meant she has been with 8 partners, and thats normal. Honestly to answer your question i think it just depends on how you connect. You probably are more comfortable with him or hes just better than all the other slouches u been with.
2006-08-27 19:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by davls416 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 22:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously learn to spell. other not otha, what are you? some sort of street urchin? it wasnt how hes built silly, its what he did, break it down in your mind and figure out what he did when you blew your stack. then teach other guys to do that.
2006-08-27 19:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probaly because you are more comfortable with him
since you are good friends
you got to learn to be comfortable and relaxed with other guys
let them know what you like,what feels the best etc
2006-08-27 19:27:58 · answer #8 · answered by dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you have emotional attachment with him and feel comfortable and relax in his company.
Enjoy.
2006-08-27 19:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's special. I say stick with him.
2006-08-27 19:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by Redeemer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋