okay so me and my friend (whos a girl) she was sleeping over my house we started talking about sex and then we started touching eachother .. man i felt so good... here's my question does this consider me a lesbian? will it mess up our friendship b/c now everytime we get together and the lights are out we go at it. is that normal or just weird
2006-08-27 19:17:33 · 16 answers · asked by Latin Princess 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
How old are u? I dont know if ur old enough to know if ur a lesbian, but may have done that because u didnt feel it was wrong, not because u fealt it was right. Its kind of complicated.
If ur attracted to her, then u may be a lesbian.
I know girls arent disgusted by the thought of 2 girls having sex as guys are of 2 guys having sex.
Im guessing that if u did what u did, then ur attracted to her, as in like her sexually. Do u find her sexually attractive while not finding boys so?
2006-08-27 19:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that just makes you a person who fooled around with her friend the other night. It doesn't change anything about who you are. It's not that unusual for heterosexual people to occasionally have thoughts about or even experiment with the same sex. If you've never been interested in girls before, then that's all it was, experimentation. If you *were* interested in girls before, well, congratulations on getting lucky for the first time. Either way, you're exactly the same person you were before.
At the same time, there's nothing that says anyone has to be exclusively interested in girls or exclusively interested in boys. I think for girls especially sexual preference is more of a continuum than always a strict either-or.
Probably your friend is feeling the same way you are, and the two of you will wind up never bringing it up again. But if it starts to get weird between you, just talk about it and decide whether you want it to be a one time thing or not. It doesn't have to be a big deal.
2006-08-28 02:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Logically, it will definitely affect your friendship in future when either of you decide to move on .. sexual encounter would sway people's thought .. its like a physical addiction that generates some chemical / hormonal reaction to your brains. And there will be an attachment to your relationship.
May grew into lesbianism .. an may affect future "normal" relationship if not well managed.
I suggest you practice masturbation (on your own), which I think is perfectly normal for male and female. You tap on fantasy rather than affecting the friendship and potentially your future sexual inclination ..
Take care ..
2006-08-28 02:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're normal. It won't ruin your relationship unless you let it. You're only a lesbian if you don't like guys anymore. You may be bisexual, but this is more normal than you may be aware. Sexuality is not black-and-white, straight-or-gay. Everyone has their own preferences, and they can vary from one time to the next throughout one's life. Just be grateful that you've had a broad range of experiences, and that you have such a trustworthy, open-minded friend!
2006-08-28 02:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it felt good, it was good
there's nothing wrong with consented sex between 2 people.
Besides it's normal to be curious about this sort of thing. If you really liked it try getting a guy involvel it'll make it even more fun
2006-08-28 02:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This path will lead you on a road you may not want to go down. If you're interested in starting a family and one day having children of your own, and marrying a nice man to be their father, perhaps you should rethink your actions.
2006-08-28 02:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur attracted to someone (same sex) then the possibility of being a lesbian is there..
if u are'nt, then why would u stick with a girl and enjoy what ur doing 2gether if there's a guy out there? ;)
2006-08-28 02:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by asker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, it is quite okay and normal. Quite a lot of women and girls finger each other and stimulate each other's sex organs.
There is no question of feeling afraid or guilty about it. It is proper and pleasurable. In the process you can better understand yourself and other women's/girl's sexuality.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 11:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by sm84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hot and you know all us guys want to watch. It may not make you a lesbian, but some might say you were bi. I just want a copy of the tape and you can label it whatever you want! LOL
2006-08-28 02:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by retardedpossum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it makes you a lesbian. if you've never done it before, your just experimenting, if you have your having fun. if you two are not seeing anyother people and want to continue what your doing, then go for it... if you want to stay as friends then just be friends. but you should probably have a heart to heart talk with her and see what you are both feel and what you both want.
2006-08-28 02:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by cougardame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋