having sex before marrage is good or bad ?

Question

from exprienced people.....

Answer 1

It all depends on your personal morals and values. Some don't mind, some will not. That is a choice you have to make, but before you do remember, this is a decision that you will have to live with forever. It is nothing to take lightly! Personally I believe you wait for marriage, but that comes from personal experience with NOT waiting.. If you like, I will explain to you , but I would rather not post it here!

Answer 2

Alright...depending on your personal beliefs, religous beliefs as well as social suceptability, premarital sex can be either healthy and responsible or sinful and bad.
Look around you. Marriages are going out of style like Sigfried and Roy in Vegas. In today's modern society there isn;'t much room for forced relationships like that. The expectations are unreasonable and too high. Not to say marriage is bad. It's just not for everyone. And to assume so is ignorant and illogical. That's like saying everyone on the planet should like the same style of clothing for the rest of their lives. Or drive the same car type as everyone else. If you feel in your heart that your marriage will last if you save yourself, then follow that belief. But if you wonder if that's the best way to go...then perhaps you should try sex before being married. The more you know someone, the better your understanding of them. Sexual intimacy (unless you are devoutly religous) is a healthy and important aspect of marriage. It's the grease that oils the machine and keeps it all working smoothly. (along with communication and fidelity/trust/faith in one another.)
So..again, use your judgement, don't be pressured into something you don't want and follow your heart. Good luck.

Answer 3

NO! But, it will happen if it's meant to be and only when you are ready. Once you lose your virginity there is no getting it back and you don't want your first time to be meaningless and lost for that someone that you will marry and hopefully spend the rest of your life with. If you do decide to have sex before marriage, make sure it is with someone you LOVE and absolutely cherish and can't live without! This person should be someone you want to spend the rest of your life with and plan to marry and she (based by your user name you are male??) should feel the same way about you. That is what makes sex good. Even when you do find someone like that, you still should wait, but love is love and just pray and ask God to forgive you, as you did commit a sin! He knows your heart and will forgive if you believe in him and Jesus Christ! Don't do ANYTHING you want to. Take care! You are not alone!!

Answer 4

Depends on if you and your partner are mature and responsible enough to handle sex. If you are old enough, and yes, I really do think that eighteen is about right, then make sure that you are in love, and not just doing it to get it over with, which is something that way too many people I know have done, and later wished they hadn't. In the end, it's a personal choice, and whatever you decide, remember that when you do eventually have sex, you need to use protection.

Answer 5

An informed answer requires much more information:

*How old are the two people?
*How mature are they--both physically and emotionally?
*How long have they known each other?
*How much sexual/romantic experience does each person already have?
*What level of emotional commitment do they have to one another?
*What are their religious/ethical views on premarital sex?
*What form(s) of birth control will they use?
*What options do they consider viable if birth control fails (i.e. if the female becomes pregnant)?

Generally speaking, premarital sex is worthwhile IF the partners are mature and responsible, IF they have worked out their answers to the questions posed above (and agree on their answers to the last four), and IF they respect themselves and each other sufficiently to enjoy the emotional and not just physical stimulation of sex. If the partners are too young (hint: if you think you might be, you are), if they aren't at the same level of commitment, or if they aren't ready to face the prospect of becoming parents, then maybe they should consider mutual masturbation instead.

Answer 6

A lot depends on your religious beliefs. If you truly believe that God will punish you for doing it, then you should not do it. On the other hand, I personally think I would like to be sure I was sexually compatable with someone before I committed to a lifelong marriage with them, since I do not believe in divorce. When you get married, you are making a vow before God to remain faithful and married to that person until you die. So, I guess you have to figure out if God will judge you more for having sex before marriage or getting divorced.

Answer 7

sex needs marriage its ok but despite marriage consent of both matters more than it . Only if eachother is satisfied they suceed many married couples get seperated due to lack of sex satisfaction then whats it all get full enjoyment by way of satisfying eachother instead of peepin to everyone .Sex is essence of life have a meanin respect for it to b evr happy wit ur sexmate

Answer 8

You wouldn't buy a car before you test drove it now would you?Think about it,This is the person you are going to spend the rest of your like with.It is not the right way of doing things,but I know I don't want to be stuck with a "lemon".

Answer 9

It is okay unless and until it with the same person whom you are going to get married.and if you are very much sure about that.You know Why im telling you this is because you might never know what can happen the next moment.so be safe in what ever you do.

Answer 10

Well if you do not have any religious issues, I think before is better as the couple know what they are getting into... If you discover only after marriage that your partner is really lousy in bed it kinda sucks.