i've been dating this kidd since 2003-2005, he ask me out on valentines day. And one day when i was meeting him at a park i saw him kiss 1 of my frend and when he saw me he try to explain but i didn't want to hear it bcuzz i kno he can't explain sumthin he juss did. so i broke up with him......and now dat i been seeing so many otha guys he had the decent to call me this year and ask me bacc out.....i know he cares alot about me but i told him i onlii give a guy 1 chance and dats it. every valentine he would give or send me roses...so0o wut should i do?
2006-08-27 19:12:40 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Infamous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by the way im 16 not 20 sumthin!!??
2006-08-27 19:59:33 · update #1
Nope.....once a cheater always a cheater.
Trust is not the same anymore.
2006-08-27 20:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, check your spelling.. Kidding! Anyways.. Personally, I have this principle which I believe in.. If a person cheated you once, forgive him and start again.. Another chance as they say.. If it happened the second time and you still forgave him, it's ok.. Maybe you wanted to make things work.. But if it happened the third time, HELL! Wake up! Are you stupid or what?
I forgave my past relations when they did something wrong AS LONG AS IT DOES NOT INVOLVE OTHER GIRLS. If the issue is a girl, I would rather stay single for sometime and search for the right one than go back to a cheater.. Giving gifts to you during valentines doesn't mean a thing.. Take time to think things out..
2006-08-28 02:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sence you are young i say why not. If he is makeing that big of an attempt you might wanna take him up on that offer. If he does it again, kick him to the curb. But if you have to ask yourself if you want him back and if you still care for him, which im sure you do, that was a long time being togather. Just remember tho, you're young and people can change.
2006-08-28 02:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the person wasnt a friend to be kissing him and no dont take back cheaters not worth it they will do it again. get into a good habit of just letting them go first time around. read more on dating on this site
2006-08-28 02:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont u think u deserve someone better? do u wanna go thru this again of seeing him kiss ur frnd? he's jus tryin to impress u wit flowers n all. frgt him.once a guy cheats u shld never frgiv him. cuz if u do he'l think "wow she's easy" ..look fr a lesser complicated relationship
2006-08-28 02:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by damzel in distress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. He will do it again if you take him back. Move on and find another man who will be good to you.
2006-08-28 02:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater...u never know he could be wanted u back and seeing another girl at the same time
2006-08-28 02:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by twilight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your principles. Not married and no kids? Forget about him! He is what they call a Courtship Bastard (regrets what he did...his courtship skills: impressive....and after you forgive him....baam! ..he does it again).
Mine is a Saint Bastard...no one sees it coming, because during and after his crime, he looks innocent and acts loving.....he even makes you feel like it was all your fault and your fault only.
Don't settle for less.....and do not let nicey- nice behavior in the beginning fool you. Good luck for your future and stay sharp!!!
2006-08-28 02:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 mistake almost every body is aloud to make.give hin/her another chance and dont let you guard down,As president Regan said Trust and chek.If hapen again just dump him/her and move on.Remeber first time is shame on you ...the second time is shame on me.
2006-08-28 02:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, once a cheater, always a cheater. (Most of the time)
2006-08-28 02:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by princess_sam_21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋