2006-08-27 18:48:09 · 6 answers · asked by sweet_glen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Believe it not sometimes you should not. Depends on what the person did and if they admitted that they did it and are actually and really sorry and have changed their ways. Otherwise, move on. Some things/behaviors are unacceptable no matter what.
2006-08-27 18:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Island Queen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are giving no context. Why would you want to forgive and trust someone? Maybe this person doesn't deserve it or maybe he will do it again? People don't change their spots. They really don't. I didn't used to believe it, but I do now. So, if you are happy with this person and they just messed up and really are on the whole a good supportive fun person who is respectful of themselves and you and where you blossom, then you need to learn to get over the mistrust. If it is a pattern with this person then MOVE ON! (if this person cheated on you, you can bet this person will do it again.) There is a time for being the bigger person and being compassionate. Then there are times to haul *** and say, Buh-bye, you are not good enough for me and I need to be somewhere else where I get what I need and deserve. Best of luck to you!
2006-08-28 01:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the pain is that deep and you feel you cannot trust, then it's best to find a way to move on. To stay in a relationship where you have doubts will hurt you and your partner, and ultimately destroy the relationship
2006-08-28 01:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard i know.. my best friend totally broke my trust and put me threw so much crap... but i just had to forgive her she'd been there for me threw a lot of things that had happened in my life.. only forgive them if their worth it becuase if they aren't they'll probably just break ur trust and bring you more pain. same with guys. wish you luck <3
2006-08-28 01:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God bless you. Just forgive like Jesus.
2006-08-28 02:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by farshicago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't!
2006-08-28 02:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋