Problem is he's married (bad marriage) but is willing to be with me, Problem #2 he's in another country on another continent...Is this relationship doomed from the start or will love find a way?
2006-08-27 18:38:29 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you hook up with him, you will have to realize that he stepped out on one wife, and he will do it to you too.
he is in another continent and wants to come to america? please! don't be a sucker!
Lose him.
2006-08-27 18:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by sharrron 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh my...I really don't think you should be falling in love so soon after a divorce...AND this guy is married...In another country...uhgghhhggg..kinda a mess don't you think?
If you absolutely NEED to feed your urge then finalize your divorce, let the other guy get a divorce and then see if he will move FOR YOU. Don't move for him...HE should be willing if he loves you. Go from there.
2006-08-27 20:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doomed, if you don't see the error of your ways.
Don't ever start a new relationship, until the old one is settled.
Don't ever get involved with someone who is already in a relationship.
Who cares if you are "in love". Both of you are just looking for an easy way out. Unsatisfied people often blame their relationship for their unhapiness and seek to correct it by getting involved with someone who doesn't know them. In this way, they (meaning you) can pretend to be whoever they want and thereby, escape from their own misery.
It's cruel thing to do to someone. It's ironic that you are doing it to each other.
2006-08-27 19:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by limendoz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My TWIN sister I had very different labors. She had her baby a week early, had a 38 hour labor, 4 degree tear and passed out because she lost a lot of blood. 4 years later during my labor, I had to be induced because I was a week late, my cervix got stuck at 6 cm after about 18 hours of labor so I had to go with a c-section. Very different huh?
2016-03-17 03:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does it feel being in adultery relationship ? Like they said , you reap what you sow. LOSE HIM !!! or it is a one way ticket to hell. You are married to your ordained lifetime soulmate God gave you to have in the first place not this other guy. Marriage is what it is UNTIL DEATH. How about starting and finishing one thing at a time ? THAT MEANS GO BACK TO YOUR HUSBAND ........ LIVE LIFE WITH EACH OTHER UNTIL DEATH !!!!!!
2006-08-27 19:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee...maybe you've hooked up with my husband!
For the past 10 years, my ESTRANGED husband cheated. I'm sure he used the 'i'm in a bad marriage, but I'm willing to be with you' on girls he had relats with. he travels alot and this type of 'girl in every port' relationship really appeals to some a**holes. i think you've hooked up with one.
what is love to you? is it being in a bad marriage and hooking up with someone who is unavailable on many diff levels--physically and geographically, emotionally, etc?
why are you willing to take such a crappy offer of love?
2006-08-27 19:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by fabulousisjane 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YIP SOUNDS LIKE THE SAME OLD BS AS ANOTHER I HAVE HEARD IN THE PASS, I'M IN A BAD MARRIAGE AND HE IS TOO AND I LOVE HIM,HE LOVES ME TOO, SAME OLD **** AFTER ANOTHER. BUT HOW DO YOU REALLY KNOW FOR SURE HE IS REALLY IN A BAD MARRIAGE, CAN YOU SAY THIS FOR SURE TEN? SOMETIMES THEY TELL YOU THINGS THEY KNOW YOU WANT TO HEAR AND THEN LATER DOWN THE ROAD YOU FIND OUT IT WASN'T THE WAY THEY TOLD YOU IT WAS...I THINK YOU SHOULD REALLY THINK ABOUT THIS BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING REALLY STUPID.
2006-08-27 19:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doomed if you start it before you finish your currrent marriage. That's just cowardice. If you want this person do your spouses the courtesy of getting a divorce first!
2006-08-27 18:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What your going thought is a rebound do not let your heart get the best of you. Right now, you must think with your head not with your heart. Have fun talking to men, but do not take anyone seriously give yourself time Let love come slowly.
2006-08-27 18:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to sound harsh but.....How about starting and finishing one thing at a time? Do you have ADD? There's not enough drama in your life....you need more?
2006-08-27 18:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't persue it...He lives so far away what kind of relationship would you have...Find someone who lives just a little bit closer to you
2006-08-27 19:12:00 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋