I am married and have been having problems with my husband for the past year when i found out that he was talking to other women on line.i think he is still doing it we have not been getting along lately every little thing that we do might start out find but always end up in an argument well we got into another argument tonight he told me that i have 1 month and then have to get the **** out of his house!! the house is in his name although i do live in a communal state i will leave if i have too but i am wondering if i am being taken advantage of any advice
2006-08-27 18:38:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
GET A LAWYER. DIFFERENT FROM ONE HE CAN GET AND GET A PRIVATE INVESTIGATER THAT WILL INVESTIGATE HIM AND HIS CHEATIN.
i don't suggest divorce usually but maybe this is what is right. honestly. and if you live mainly in the house your in with your husband now more the majority of the year you have every right to it.
Its called the matrimonial home, which is the house that is primiarilarly ysed for the family enjoyment. so even if its in his name you have a right to half of it. based on most family law acts in most states. also the car and everything acquired during the marriage and any seperation is also half urs or a percentage. DO NOT move out of the house at all. DO NOT go live somewhere else or anything at all.for any period of time. or you will give up ur right to the house.
go to a lawyer asap.
2006-08-27 18:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by SEXY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you helping to make payments for the house? If so, then YES...you need to call a lawyer. Unfortunately if you aren't putting anything towards the house, I don't think you are being taken advantage of BUT I still think that you can get legal advice since you are married (even if your name is not under the house). Worse comes to worse... leave the jerk, get some space, and try to rebuild your life. Maybe get a place of your own? I know, easier said than done :( Good luck...
2006-08-28 02:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to get out of the house and have no more feelings for you, you should quickly seek a reliable lawyer to file for a divorce. At least, you'll be guaranteed a fair division of assets. Don't budge from the house until he literally kicks you out. That way, you can lodge a police report for physical abuse and use it against your unfaithful husband in the divorce suit. Never leave a relationship feeling shortchanged.
2006-08-28 01:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him to leave. You have just as much right to be there as he does. It's your home too. If he's not happy....he can go somewhere else.
And if a divorce is pending....get legal advise. You are entitled to half the equity in the home that was gained while you've been married regardless of who's name is on the mortgage or land title.
Good luck.
2006-08-28 02:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. You have really two options:
Go get a lawyer, draw up the divorce paperwork, take whatever share of the finances are yours (according to the lawyers involved) and get him out of your life. What's even keeping you around?
Go get a marriage counselor. Give it a shot, see if there's anything worth saving. If not, or if he refuses, then go to the above.
2006-08-28 01:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would make an appointment a see a lawyer and tell him what your husband said. Do you have children? If you do then that will change the whole picture, especially your husbands.
2006-08-28 01:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, get a lawyer NOW, call your local bar association, they will find you one and your first consultation is very cheap. Do it before you leave so you know what your rights are regarding the house.
2006-08-28 01:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to try to keep the house get a lawyer, if not-just find somewhere else to live and live! Be free of that moron!!
2006-08-28 19:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are married he can't just through you out...take him to court....talk to a lawer now...get the house from him....desn't matter if it's only on his name...make him pay alimony and what ever else you want...set a life style that is high...tell the court you have been living in this nice state of luxury and make him pay for a nice apartment. keep some of his e-mails and his addresses on line of women that he talk to and use that as an affair....don't let him see it coming...hit him as hard as it has hit you...do it, I mean it....if he tells you to get out like that....he seems to think you have no knowledge of what you can do to him.... stand up straight lady...and clean his *** out....but remember...when it's cheaper to keep her...he's gonna start asking you back...don't let in...hang his *** out to dry....
2006-08-28 03:05:08 · answer #9 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get an attorney first thing in the morning! The consult is usually free!
2006-08-28 01:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋