im 13. 110lbs. and 5'2. i feel that i am fat and that my thighs are too wide. my frends are all around 5ft and they are like really skinny and they weigh like 85 lbs no matter how much they eat. i no that its their matabilism and everything but i feel uncomfrontable around them. like when we go shopping and everything. we are the same size on the top but on the bottoms they are like 0 and 00 and im a 2. its not that they are unhealthly or anything thats just how they are.
i thnk my thighs are to wide and they say they arent but they are sticks. i no that they dont really care on wat size jeans i waer but it makes me unconfrontable. so does anybody have any thing to help that would make me more feel comfrontable around them?
2006-08-27 18:19:15 · 17 answers · asked by babe27 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Sorry if this is kind of personal, but it may be because your friends have not begun puberty yet, so they haven't started developing and you have? A size 2 is tiny, no matter how you feel. I understand when you compare yourself to others who are thinner than you, it can make you feel inadequate. But you have to understand you're weight and size are perfectly fine. Also you are taller than your friends, so they probably will weigh less. You don't need to lose weigh, just keep yourself in shape by getting lots of exercise and eating healthily.
You really have nothing to worry about, it just sounds like you are a bit insecure and self conscious. You need to focus on other things that make you feel good about yourself. How about taking up a new hobby, where you can meet new people, such as a drama group or athletics club, or doing some volunteer work in your local community, where the focus is not on you, like helping out with animals. I'm sure you'll be fine, you just need some confidence. Take care : )
2006-08-27 20:39:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all you should know that you are healthy weight/height for a 13 year old. They reason you might be a little bit bigger then your friends is because you are taller. I was always like 5 inches taller then my friends and it was always a bit akward. Im sure that eventually you will all end up about the same pants size at the end. Just forget about sizes...dont let that stuff go to your head...it could lead to some bad stuff.
2006-08-27 18:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by speedy21747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that what size pants you wear or how big or small your thighs are have no importance to who you are as a person. Being a good person is what should really be important to you! The media puts too much emphasis on being thin, and why would you want to look like every other person. Be original. Be your own person.
2006-08-27 18:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about your weight! Just look at yourself in the mirrow to see if you are a good, healthy size. You can be lean at 110 and fat at a lower weight, you know. It just means that you have more muscle mass, which makes you weight more. Being a 0, and 00 is tricky because you don't fill out your clothes real good-and it looks sloppy. It's better to be a size that you can fill out your clothes, you know?
2006-08-27 18:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by FerretLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
devour healthly! artwork out! it is the main suitable thank you to lose it! additionally remember that your weight should not be the focal factor of your existence! no count if it is then it is an issue which could lead on on you down the line of eating themes and disordered eating behavior! in case you elect for professional suggestion ask your healthcare expert, or refer to a nutritionist or dietian they'd have the capacity that should assist you with this! stable luck on your journey and remember that this alteration must be for YOU and you on my own! DONT exchange FOR OTHERS HAPPINESS! well being IS greater significant THAN BEING skinny! DONT STARVE! DONT BINGE AND PURGE! DONT BINGE! prepare a healthly relationship with nutrition, because it is needed to stay existence!
2016-09-30 23:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r NORMAL YEAH!!! How do I know ok... In science we learned about the Body Mass Index (BMI) It tells if ur underwieght, Normal, Overwieght, or obesity. And here's the web site is u wanna check k. And there is a chart the chart is.
Underweight = <18.5
Normal weight = 18.5-24.9
Overweight = 25-29.9
Obesity = BMI of 30 or greater And u r 20.1 that's Nomal
2006-08-27 18:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the average weight for your height. Can you get acess to a gym membership? Even just a few minutes of cardio/day will help you shed built-up water weight and make you feel better and speed up your metabolism too.
2006-08-27 18:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by teacher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like you are in a good weight... You are a size 2 which is small, dont worry about it. And about your weight you are taller than them so it suites you fine.. If you are worried you can try eating more vegetables.BUT DONT STOP EATING NO MATTER WHAT... I hope you feel better. And i think if they weight 85lbs they are too skinny.. do they eat healthy?
2006-08-27 18:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u should feel comfortable with ur weight, if that means losing it then do it, it can only be good, unless u go overboard, try eating healthy and exercising, vomiting after meals can cause severe head trauma, but dont be afraid to skip lunch and dinner occansionally, but not breakfast of course
2006-08-27 18:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Martin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be ashamed how you are, 2 is not a big size, try being 13 5'7" and wearing a size 10, you should not be uncomfortable, its who you are that makes you not what you look like
2006-08-27 18:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋