wether it be here, or at work or anywhere..is this normal? or should I harden my heart a bit more?
2006-08-27 18:10:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
baby, you should never harden your heart....... if you do..... you will love other people with that level of hardness.... there are so many people in this world that are already like that.... don't harden your heart..... just be wise in how you deal with people. Forgiveness is so cool.......
As I journey through this time of life, I have come to realize that most angry, mean, slanderous people have been hurt really bad.... I want to be the person who makes a difference.
2006-08-28 03:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Coodles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hating someone is very unhealthy, not to mention it takes too much effort. Of course it's normal to not hate someone who has hurt you. I'm sure there are people that you dislike, ya know people that you do not want to be friends with; but there is such a difference between disliking people and hating. You sound like a really good person, don't ever wish to be hardened. It takes a really strong secure person to see the good in others, and when the goodness isn't showing, it takes a good hearted person to feel sorry for them. The world can use more strong,secure good hearted people like you.
2006-08-28 01:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldnt. There is a difference between choosing your friends wisely, and hating people.
2006-08-28 01:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by dumbgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got the same problem....I can't hate...not even my boss...and he makes me mad!!! Don't harden your heart...It really won't make you feel better....
2006-08-28 14:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by itty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋