a week ago i had a party and there was this guy there that liked me. he told me a week after my party and he knew i had a boyfriend, so he started talking to me all sweet like...you are so beutiful ..blah blah blah...at first i was why are you telling me this, you know i have a boyfriend. ok the point in this is that he came to my house to look at a pic i had from the party. and he tryed so hard to kiss me i pushed him off about 1000 times till finally he gave me a peck and it led to a real kiss, i guess in a way im attractive to him, the next day i broke up with my boyfriend because i was to ambarrased to see him. i broke his heart and i broke my own heart, i ****** up big time..everyone tells me not to tell my boyfriend, but i saw him today and that was all i thought about. oh yea by the way it was only a kiss and after he kissed me he said "im not a stable person" now i dont even wanna go back out with my x because he deserves better than me. someone please help
2006-08-27 18:03:36 · 21 answers · asked by mendezlugarcia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Help with what? You already know what you did wrong. Learn from your mistake and move on.
2006-08-27 18:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Leela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty...you must not really think to highly of your relationship with your boyfriend or you would have never let him stay at your house that long...let alone invite him to your house in the first place. Secondly, kissing or sex or whatever...it's still cheating. So maybe on your next boyfriend you'll have the respect not to do that mess with some other person
2006-08-27 18:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa198517 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the guy forced himself on you.......you responding to an kiss is not cheating in every mans book I have ever read!!!
Let it go, you confessed to us that which was not a sin to begin with......just tell your boyfriend you were attracted to this guy and you felt gulty for your thoughts so you split up with him, tell him you are sorry.....trust me, has lusted over other women!
You didn't do anything wrong except perhaps break up with him!
2006-08-27 18:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn that sux but, also love why would u even let a guy in your house that know A# u have a BF #B likes u alot. This was a bad mistake and can try to explain but, once a bf/gf's trust has been broken thats it your a whore in his eyes. NEXT TIME KNOW UR LIMITS!!!
2006-08-27 18:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OhMy, well dont worry it can all get sorted out. Tell your guy that such and such a thing happened and that you r sorry and it means nothing to you. breaking off a 2 and half yr relationship for one lousy kiss...aah not worth it...
so be true to yourself ..appologize to your guy and get back with him...
this incident might get you closer...
c anyways you guys have broken up. so confess and get it out of the way. so in case he doesnt forgive you, you have broken up anyways..and if he forgives u..well and good!!
All the best.
2006-08-27 18:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by v v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know, the kiss was no big deal to break up over.
Just tell your bf you are sorry and want to work things out, without hurting him anymore.
If you are not married, then kissing another guy is no big deal, ok.
Until you are married, you should just consider yourself single and not date only one person.
2006-08-27 18:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always your best policy. It will hurt, he will be angry, but don't you want him to trust you? Youve been together a while, so there i ssubstance to your relationship. Tell him. You owe it to yourself and you awe it to him. Get it off your chest or it will destroy you. The truth will set you free!
2006-08-27 18:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly what happened or it will bother you and eat at you forever. Then if he don't want you anymore then at least you told the truth. Who knows? Maybe he'll forgive you. Good luck.
2006-08-27 18:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Gez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're guilty and the best way to do is to accept the fact that you are just human and vulnerable to commit sin...what matters is that you acknowledged the fact that you are at fault...tell your boyfriend about what happened, ask him to forgive you, so that you can move on...If your bf really loves you, he might forgive you....but please don't do it again....Goodluck...cheer up...God Bless
2006-08-27 18:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never good!!! but honesty and trust is what a relationship depends on, so you need to tell him or you will never feel good enough to be with him!
2006-08-27 18:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by Cutie Pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋