There is this girl I work with, she is a few years older than me, but she had seemed to be flirting with me, I figured she was just being friendly, since she is married. The other day she tells me she had a dirty dream about me, then she hands me her phone number. This would be any guys dream come true, if she wasn't married. I know what I should do, but I just want help on how to tell her no.
2006-08-27 17:56:38 · 23 answers · asked by Caleb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I just want to let everyone know, I AM NOT going any furthur, I just want to know HOW to tell her no.
2006-08-27 18:03:53 · update #1
Tell her that you couldn't respect yourself...or HER...if you take this any further. Tell her that although you're incredibly flattered, you can't let this go any further out of respect for her, and more importantly, HER HUSBAND. (incidentally, you can respect her husband whether you think he's a chump or have never met him in person)
You absolutely HAVE to run like hell and not get involved any further than you already have...there's nothing but pain and heartbreak if you take one more step.
2006-08-27 18:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married... off limits... Who knows who else she is doing this to/with... If she'll do it with you, she'll do it to ya... Shall I go on?
You should be frank about telling her you are uncomfortable and disappointed in her behavior... maybe she will think it over and not do it again. Also, be prepared for some sob story about how awful her marriage is... probably isn't true but even if it is she is STILL OFF LIMITS until she can show you divorce papers.
2006-08-28 01:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by tnblond29 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get caught up in that bull-sh*t at all man run you can get hurt. People dont play if they think your fuc*ing up their future and of course she dont care cause he will take her back and you will be hurt like hell. So run away and tell dont act like that with me cause you a married woman. I know you dont want to be laying in the dich stanking somewhere so leave hoes where they at.
2006-08-28 01:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by nina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one, you are already telling yourself that you shouldn't be messing with her. Number two, cheating is not right, especially with a married woman and three...you work with her, you don't want to get in trouble for sexual harrassment if it doesn't work out or she gets jealous.
2006-08-28 01:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa198517 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are not comfortable breaking up a family/marriage. Even if her husband never finds out, you and she both will have to live with the guilt. That's just not worth it.
2006-08-28 00:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by krpetee2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she was your wife and the other man is thinking what you are thinking right now and you know, How would you react? the very fact that you ask tells you that something is wrong. However, try and have sex with her and then go tell the husband.
2006-08-28 01:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
#1 She's married
#2 Don't go there
#3 Don't even think about going there
This WILL come back to bite you in the behind - don't flatter yourself that you are the first person that she has done this to.
2006-08-28 00:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rip off the #. Run the other way fast. Cut off all contact. Unless u want to get fired and beat up. Go for it.
2006-08-28 01:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is how you say no... "NO"
if she bugs you about it say "You are married and I have morals, sorry."
You wouldn't want to get involved with her no matter how hot she is. She took vows to "love, honor, and be loyal" to her husband and that didn't stop her from asking you out and being lewd. Do you think she will be someone you want to take home to mom?
2006-08-28 01:05:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to tell her anything. Ignore it and pretend you never received her number.
Just act like it never happened. She'll come to her senses and save being embarrassed for her lack of discretion.
2006-08-28 01:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋