2006-08-27 17:54:06 · 15 answers · asked by debraj622000 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Because you are afraid sex might be painful, there is reason to be concerned that it might be. Just like any time your body is penetrated, if you are not relaxed and focused on enjoying yourself, you will be more tense and essentially fulfill your worry because you are worrying about it! It's funny how the mind works like that.
Your concern is unwarranted. The vagina is an extremely stretchy muscle and is designed to accept a penis. If you are really worried about it, you can spend some time with a sex toy to ease your worry, but it is certainly not a requirement.
On the night in question, be sure to start slowly. Be sure you spend plenty of time on foreplay for both of you. If possible, you should make every effort to have an orgasm before penetration, it will ensure you are very well lubricated and in many cases causes vaginal muscles to temporarily relax a bit, and it will certainly help you relax mentally.
Congrats on finding someone special, be sure to be safe, and relax! This is what those parts were made for :-P
2006-08-27 18:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by loudgrrl4_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots and lots of foreplay. A good lube and a condom. Relax with romantic music and candlelight and I'm sure you won't feel any pain. Maybe slightly discomfited when he penetrates you for the first time but not pain.
2006-08-28 00:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have gone through long periods of celibacy also. The emotional aspects were harder for me to deal with. Physically everything is all good. It's not like you actually get rusty. ha ha Be honest about your history with your partner. If you can't talk about it perhaps you shouldn't be doing it.
2006-08-28 01:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by ItsJustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to be gentle, go slow, use lots of lube and just relax. If it doesn't happen the first time, so what? At least enjoy yourself. And congratulations on getting back into it. ;)
2006-08-28 01:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get sume lub and get you a toy first that way u can tell how far and deep that way it wont hurt so bad .guy get in a hurry some times and for gett what they r doing and how ruff they get when haveing great sex
2006-08-28 01:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by grim120501 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey pain is pain, but ull get over it, let him ***** ur **** harder then uve ever been ******* b4, after letting him eat your p u ssy, let him screw you up your asss:D, then after that let him stimulate your clit, but dont bite it.. oh and let him drink ur breast milk too thats always fun,,make sure to use some lube and a condom, STDs are preasent but idc if ur dumbasssgets hurt bc u dont mattetr:D
2006-08-28 01:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful, and take it as slow as you need to. If he can't respect that, he obviously isn't good enough for you.
2006-08-28 07:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him… be honest… tell him to take it slow because its been so long… if anything it will make him like you more
2006-08-28 01:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not gonna hurt, unless your friend likes it rough
2006-08-28 00:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use some lube and take it slowly. Ask him to be gentle.
2006-08-28 00:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋