my friend is the other woman to a guy who is trying to have a baby with his actual girlfriend. i've lost respect for her and for some reason the last time we were mean to meet she stood me up and that was 4 weeks ago and i haven't heard from her since. what shoul i do?
2006-08-27 17:52:44 · 4 answers · asked by chlo_bo69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave it alone. It sounds like to me that you don't approve of what she is doing. So why bother? If you see her on the street be cordial and keep on going..
2006-08-27 17:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is in an icky karmic place right now. How would she feel if the shoe was on the other foot? I would write a letter to her explaining that you are concerned about the choices she is making, and that you can't just stand there watch her make such a terrible mistake. Tell her that you can't be around her anymore until she comes to her senses, when she's ready you will be there for her. (And never tell her "I told you so")
2006-08-28 01:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell her that if it was her would she like it done to her. She needs to wake up and realize that eventually her heart will be in too deep and when she least expects it it will happen to her. As for you and her friendship that is on how you see it. Would you feel comfortable if it was you and she new about it.
2006-08-28 00:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. Why would you want to hang around her anyway?
2006-08-28 00:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋