I like that girl, and she is a good friend of mine - she thinks of me as a friend. we spend a lot of time toghether, huging eachother... stuff like that. I think that if i'll give her a very good kiss things could change. So what would be the perfect way to kiss her?
2006-08-27 17:36:40 · 13 answers · asked by ostrich 78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kiss her very softly and gently for first time .
2006-08-27 17:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by orangibloom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing you can not stress about it. I had a friend who constantly talked about kissing his girlfriend: where, how, when?
we even went on a kissing site which listed a bunch of different kinds which was funny but not very practical. he finally ended up kissing her in this perfect setting in this little alcove of trees that were all sprouting with little flowers and it was in scotland. Sound really good? well it wasn't. i heard from both of them that it sucked. it was totally unromantic becuz they had made it an obsession. the guy had at least. My point is that you need to be totally sure that's what the girl wants. if you are then don't give it much thought. when it happens it happens. and don't be a pig or anything and start cramming ur tongue down her throat cuz that's a huge turn off and could totally change the relationship you have now which sounds really sweet.
2006-08-27 19:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by snaba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you gotta set the mood. Take her out to dinner, somewhere nice, where you can have some good time alone. after that take her somewhere memorable. Down to a river or lake side, or if theres somethin goin on take her to a ferris wheel. if u do the first two walk with her til sunset, then just stop and start complementing how beautiful she is and how she makes u feel then just move in. for the ferris wheel, the entire time tell her how beautiful she is and all that then when they stop at the top move in. just keep it simple and make it memorable.
2006-08-27 17:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Type of kisses don't change the girl thinking but to how you treat her and what your behaviour. Relationship as friend may turn to a lover as time goes by. Ask her out on a date and tell her how you think of her. Good luck.
2006-08-27 17:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey kissing her isnt gonna help you if she isnt taking you as a boyfriend type then show her you care by giving her small things here and there then slowly move up from there... but the best way to kiss is french with very little spit and try not to give too much tongue!!!
2006-08-27 17:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
.Touch her hair. Say the same is very silky. Look for the response. If she smiles. Then she has some interest in you. Look at the lips. Slightly bend towards her. Watch out for the body signal. Then a gentle kiss on her lips
2006-08-27 18:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most memorable kiss I had was where the girl I was with was leaning back against me and I had my arms wrapped around her. I was just talking to her affectionately just behind her ear.
I was just talking and she turned her head toward me and kissed me. It was a nice soft kiss and she was the one who initiated it. One of the nice things about a woman being the one to initiate it is because it means she's ready.
One thing you definitely don't want to do is try "slipping her the tongue."
1) Kissing a girl isn't like in a porno movie
2) If the girl you're with has never had tongue in her mouth, it could go badly
3) It'll go worse if you've slipped a girl tongue (correctly)
If you've never done it and you want the moment to be perfect, don't engage in any moves you've never practiced with a seasoned professional.
That's why in "There's Something About Mary" you see Pat Healy (Matt Dillon) shoving his tongue down Mary's (Cameron Diaz's) throat. You see Mary gag
MARY: (sarcastically) How's my stomach taste?
That's what can happen if you try to ram your tongue down her throat.
The best way to kiss a girl is the Sales and Marketing Approach. You have to warm people up to an idea in Sales and Marketing else they won't buy into the product. If you just try to get people to buy it and they don't know what they're buying, they'll spook.
The nice part is that you've been developing a relationship with this individual and you've been spending time together and hugging. So it means that she's comfortable with you.
In order to take it to the next stage, you'll want to start moving within close proximity of her face so that there's the hint or possibility of a kiss.
Sometimes anticipation is the best aphrodisiac. By not kissing her during a couple of encounters where she thinks you're going to kiss her, you can build up interest. What will happen is you make her start thinking about it.
The more she thinks about it, the more she'll wonder when you're going to do it. Women are like ovens. You have to let them heat up first. If you want the kiss to be memorable, you approach is to get her to a stage where she wants to be kissed and starts giving off signs that she wants it from you..
If you watch the movie "Hitch" with Will Smith and Kevin James, there's that funny scene where Will Smith is asking what Kevin James will do if Will Smith was Allegra Cole.
He says you go the 90% and let the woman meet you the other 10%. Kevin James accidentally ends up kissing Will Smith because he went the whole 100, which ticking Will Smith off.
That approach works, but that still relies on the whole anticipation aspect and that the girl wants it. If she doesn't want to kiss you, it doesn't matter if you go 10% or 90%. If you do it wrong and do the 100 and she want it, it's not going to be a very good kiss.
I work in the Film & Entertainment Industry. In Marketing and Advertising, all the promos and the hype you see with Movie Trailers is all about building up anticipation. The Perfect Kiss is when the movie comes out and it's a hit.
"Pirates of the Caribbean II: Dead Man's Chest" would be the equivalent of a Perfect Kiss because it has reaped in almost a $1 billion dollars on Box Offices sales. Regardless of whether it's a good movie or a bad movie, that would be a perfect kiss to investors. The movie pressed all the right buttons with movie goers.
People try to define magic or chemistry when it comes to two people. It's not about the perfect way to kiss her, but where the Signs are all there where you choose the right moment to kiss her.
Your technique and kiss could be mediocre, but if you kiss her at the right time, you'll score the perfect kiss. Even if you have the best technique and most kissable lips but you choose the wrong moment where she's not receptive toward that kiss, it will end up badly.
Finding that right moment is all Psychological though. This, once again, comes back to prepping her. Depending on your time frame and when you want to kiss her, warming her up would be by slowly moving in through a course of 4 or 5 dates where you're getting her accustomed to your lips being within close proximity of hers so tha there's a hint of a kiss on the horizon.
People may think this sounds silly, but that's what Horse Trainers do. For wild horses that they want to break in, they have to get the horse acclimatized to the presence. Although some females would hate being compared to horses or the example of Animal Psychology, the female would be the horse and you'd be the horse trainer. Your lips would be the saddle.
If you're a Horse Trainer and you try to throw the saddle on an untamed horse, that horse is going to buck that saddle right off. It's the same with this girl as the horse and your lips as the saddle. You want the horse to be used to the saddle. You want the girl to be used to your lips being close to hers.
So when you're hanging out with her, start getting her used to your mouth being close to hers and where she feels comfortable and safe with you near her mouth. However, don't kiss her. You'll leave her wondering when you'll kiss her and you'll also get practice in reading her body language to see if she's open to wanting you to kiss her.
It may sound like I'm overdramatizing, but the objective is for future kisses. In the Marketing World, you have Hunter and Farmers.
Hunters go in for the kill. Those would be your one-night stands where they score and then they're done. Farmers are the ones that nurture the crops and take care of them so that they can keep on reaping more of what they sow. That would be long-term relationships.
Kissing is just like shooting a scene. You have to set up the shot and make sure everything is in position with the lighting, cameras, and actors to get that perfect angle.
While it's okay to go for the Perfect Kiss, don't make it the end all and be all. It's like in the movie "40 Year Old Virgin" when the co-worker is giving Andy (Steve Carell) advice.
CO-WORKER: You're putting the p*ssy up on a pedestal. You're making it out to be this big Greek Goddess "P*ssaliyah"
The most important thing is that the kiss you give is genuine, heartfelt, and sincere. It's where the girl can actually feel the tenderness, care, affection, and respect you have for her.
That's your perfect kiss. All the rest doesn't matter.
2006-08-27 18:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by "IRonIC" by Alanis 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Take her face gently in your hands, gaze into her eyes for,
hmmm... about 3 seconds, then plant a soft, sweet kiss right on her forehead.
...made ME melt!
Good luck, honey!
2006-08-27 20:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by khismom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she thinks u as a friend, so u should not just kiss her out of the blue there. she might think u are taking advantage of her...
2006-08-27 22:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by inuka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why don't u kiss her on her forehead as sign of respect anyways you are not on a deeper relationship....if you did this, she will ask you...then tell her how you feel for her...then the story will begin...good luck! and god bless U
2006-08-27 17:53:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋