Ok so I'm 13 and my boyfriends 13, weve been together for almost 8 months. My parents love him, his parents love me. And in advance dont just answer by saying 13? too young to be dating. or anything like that. But we are in love. my mom even knows we are because she can tell. we both know that we are going to get married and have kids together. and i find myself looking at wedding dresses and different designs for kitchens, living rooms, etc. And we're both still virgins if that matters at all?
But I just don't know if im looking to far into the future?? do yuo think i am???
2006-08-27 17:32:40 · 14 answers · asked by beep. bop. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you are. Although you have very strong feelings for him now, why limit yourself so early? Better question: why set yourself up to be upset if it doesn't work out the way you plan it now?
Just have fun with him for now, and take it as it comes. You two don't have any responsibilites yet, and that is a valuable thing which won't last too much longer. Don't put responsibilities on yourselves by planning exactly how your future should unfold.
2006-08-27 17:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 13 I had this bf that oh my god. i thought I was going to marry and kids and all. I could not think of any one else. He was so hot. But then He grabbed me by my neck and slammed me into a car then I caught him doing drugs. So about 13 years later I do not know where he is haven;t thought much about him. I am married to someone I met after High School and have 3 beautiful kids. Love is love and if it is meant to be will be. What is today may not be tomarrow. Try to just pray and hope that this stays the same forever. But don't look to far you haven;t even explored possiblilties and believe me they will come knocking. Not only for you but for him, Do I think true love is possible at 13? Yes, do I think it can last? Yes. But take it from me I am 27 and I sometimes still have to question myself and my choices. You will too, And what may seem so beautiful today could nothing tomarrow and something even more beautiful may come along and you will laugh at what you will know then to what you know right now. Good Luck
2006-08-27 17:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by kicojas315 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're too young, don't look so much on weddings and child-bearing and losing your virginity ( as a God-fearing person, I still believe that making love should be done after marriage). Concentrate with your studies and enjoy your teenage life so that you'll have no regrets in the future. Having a boyfriend at an early age is not wrong, but just don't get head over heels on it, girl, wake up!
2006-08-27 17:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by Monzi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god!! I feel like such a fool telling you this, but I'm kinda in the same position. I am 15, he's 14 and we are in love! I don't really know what the future will bring, but we've been together for a year and five months. I find myself fantasizing about our wedding and what not. Anyway, I think we both are looking a little far, but just let whatever happens happen. Let fate (or whatever you believe in) work its course. Good luck to the both of you!!
2006-08-27 17:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Short and sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 22:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, child. your parents should be doing NOTHING to encourage you in this. Thirteen is ABSOLUTELY too young to marry, (even 14, 15, 0r 16..). It is natural to romanticize about love and sex at your age, but FAST FORWARD A FEW YEARS WHEN YOUR HUSBAND HAS LEFT YOU, AND YOU HAVE 5 OR 6 KIDS TO TAKE CARE OF, AND HAVE TO DEPEND ON WELFARE TO GET YOU THROUGH...WHO NEEDS THAT?
I can say this because I married young. It ended five years later, but thank God, it produced one beautiful daughter. Things are different now then they were a generation or two ago. Stay in school, get an education, plan on supporting yourself first and foremost. Talk to a counselor (you and him both). Don't jump into anything!
2006-08-27 17:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by deonne r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I think you are. But I might not be right. Who knows? My in-laws have been together since about that age and they are nearing their 50th wedding anniversary. It happens, but it's rare. You need to try to keep an open mind, I think, but good luck to you anyhow. Even if you and he do stay together forever, there's surely no rush to the altar. Right? Be sure you both experience the things in life that might be important to you (college, etc.) and if you were meant to be, you will still be together then and have plenty of time for marriage and family some day.
2006-08-27 17:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Rvn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are DEFINITELY looking too far into the future...You never can tell what is going to happen in life. Yes, you are definitely too young at the age of 13 to say that you are in love despite all that you say. As you mature and get older, your views, opinions, and ideas will change--I guarantee it!
2006-08-27 17:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are, but isn't it nice to fantasize about a future together, about the home you would share and about the wedding? As long, as you know that these are lovely dreams that will hopefully come true, but are not binding, I don't see the harm in indulging in them. Does your boyfriend share your fantasies or would he get scared if he knew you had them?
2006-08-27 17:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Celeste A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as your parents and his parents knows about everything and approves of it, i think it's fine exception. your mom might think it's cute that both of you are in love, but does she knows that you are seriously going to marry him? by the way, it takes a lot more than love to make a marriage work, A LOT of other pratical things. people also change and do you have plans for that case?
2006-08-27 17:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by erk m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋