Me and my ex boyfriend broke up should i keep the baby.?

Answer 1

it really depends on your situation. are you financially stable? are you emotionally stable? are you old enough to take care ofa child? are you capable of loving a child and sacrificing a lot of your time? because that's what you'll be doing. a child is a lifetime commitment.

if you are into partying and still immature, you'll probably having someone else look after your child. so just be aware of what you're getting into..good luck with your decision.

Answer 2

That baby didnt choose to be in a broken relationship; don't punish it for what's not it's fault. A fetus is a HUMAN LIFE that feels physical pain, you can't just look at it as something left over from a bad relationship...

This little poem is very nice and I hope it helps:

Week 1
Mommy, I am only 8 inches long, but I have all my organs. I love the sound of your voice. Every time I hear it, I wave my arms and legs. The sound of your heart beat is my favorite lullaby.

Week 2
Mommy, today I learned how to suck my thumb. If you could see me, you could definitely tell that I am a baby. I'm not big enough to survive outside my home though. It is so nice and warm in here.

Week 3
You know what Mommy, I'm a girl!! I hope that makes you happy. I always want you to be happy. I don't like it when you cry. You sound so sad. It makes me sad too, and I cry with you even though you can't hear me.

Week 4
Mommy, my hair is starting to grow. It is very short and fine, but I will have a lot of it. I spend a lot of my time exercising. I can turn my head and curl my fingers and toes, and stretch my arms and legs. I am becoming quite good at it too.

Week 5
You went to the doctor today. Mommy, he lied to you. He said that I'm not a baby. I am a baby Mommy, your baby. I think and feel. Mommy, what's abortion?

Week 6
I can hear that doctor again. I don't like him. He seems cold and heartless. Something is intruding my home. The doctor called it a needle. Mommy what is it? It burns! Please make him stop! I can't get away from it! Mommy!! HELP me!! No . . . . . .

Week 7
Mommy, I am okay. I am in Jesus's arms. he is holding me. He told me about abortion. Why didn't you want me Mommy?

Every Abortion Is Just . . .
One more heart that was stopped. Two more eyes that will never see. Two more hands that will never touch. Two more legs that will never run. One more mouth that will never speak.

PLEASE REPOST THIS IF YOU CHOOSE LIFE AND ARE PRO LIFE!!
(and by the way, the oposite of pro life, is not pro choice, it's pro death...)

Answer 3

How pregnant are you? A baby is not a here today gone tomarrow thing. It is a HUMAN BEING, You and he breaking up is not the babys fault and you should be proud to be able to create such a wonderful joy. There will be plenty of help and you need to talk to your ex. so he can help you as well. He needs to beable to step up and be responsible. This is so hard and a baby is such a blessing. You to don;t have to be together to be great parents. Being there for the baby is all the baby needs from the both of you......Good luck

Answer 4

I’m not going to sit here and try to tell you that it’s a baby and it has a life…

But you need to do what’s best for you, can you afford it alone, do you want to be stuck with him for the next 20 years, remember is you in the situating not some bible thumper that thinks there to holy to be in that situations….

Me and ex were in that situation, and she did not keep it but now we are best friends, and we have been thinking of making our mistake right….

Answer 5

It all depends on the circumstances...
No one can tell you what to do...
Beleive me, you're the only one thats gonna have to live and deal with the decisions you make.

In the end it's your baby, a beating heart, and something thats part of you...a break up is not a reason to not keep it but maybe there's a story behind all this....

I've been through something very similar so if you need to talk...feel free to message me.

Answer 6

I'm no bible thumper but, I can't believe what I'm reading here! What's good for her, the mother? Does she want to be "stuck" with it for 20 yrs.? Good grief! What about the innocent baby?!! What about what's best for him or her? The baby didn't ask to be born, he was created by an act of irresponsibility on his parent's part. Do the baby a favor. Give him to loving parents to adopt. Someone wants to love him/her, nurture him/her, educate him/her. You get the picture. I'm getting off this site right now. It's making me sick.

Answer 7

I'm not trying to be rude, but why are you on Yahoo Answers asking a question like that? None of us on here can tell you what choice to make--we don't know you, we don't know your situation, and it's wrong for you to make your decision based on our opinions because this is a very contraversial issue. So my suggestion is for you to go to Planned Parenthood or another clinic in your area and talk to a health care practitioner, if you haven't already-- they can discuss your options with you and from there you can decide which one is the best for you. But please--deciding whether or not to have a baby is one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make, so do it for yourself and no one else. It's your decision to make, no one else's. Good luck, sweetie, and please take care of yourself, okay?

Answer 8

Of course. The baby shouldn't suffer.

Answer 9

yes you should. If you can't afford to raise the baby, put the baby up for adoption.

Answer 10

THAT QUESTION BOTH OF YOU CAN ONLY ASWERS. BUT
I WOULD TALK TO YOUR FAMILES AND GET THE COUNSELING YOU NEED FOR THIS BIG DECISION.. IT REALLY DEPEND ON THE AGES. ETC. BUT GET SOME
COUNSELING BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING. BUT JUST
BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT TOGETHER DOES NOT MEAN
YOU WONT BE ABLE TO RAISE THIS CHILD TOGETHER
AS IND. BUT NOT AS A COUPLE.