""LOVE MARRIAGE VS ARRANGE MARRIAGE:""
Which one you want?????!!!!!! Choice is yours
Love marriage vs Arranged marriage:
Which one do you want??!!
1. Love Marriage:
Resembles procedural programming language. We have
some set functions like flirting, going to movies
together, making long conversations on phone and then
try to fit all
functions to the candidate we like.
Arranged Marriage:
Similar to object oriented programming approach. We
first fix the candidate and then try to implement
functions on her. The main object is fixed and
various
functions are added to supplement the main program.
The functions can be added or deleted.
2. Love Marriage:
It is a throwaway tye of prototype as client
requirements rises with time thus it is a dynamic
system and difficult to maintain.
Arranged Marriage:
Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall
model is possible.
3. Love Marriage:
Family system hangs because hardware called
parents
are not responding.
Arranged Marriage:
Compatible with hardware i.e Parents.
4. Love Marriage:
You are the project leader so u are responsible
for implementation and execution of PROJECT- married
life.
Arranged Marriage:
You are a team member under project leader parents
so they are responsible for successful execution
of project Married life.
5. Love Marriage:
Client expectations include exciting feature as
spouse cooking food,washing clothes etc.
Arranged Marriage:
All these features are covered in the SRS as required features.
6. Love Marriage:
Acceptance test possible you can try before you Buy.
Arranged Marriage:
Product is sold as it is where it is basis.
Product once sold will not be taken back.
2006-08-28 01:08:38
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answer #1
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answered by bridgetmaria 2
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THERE IS NO CLEAR CUT ANSWER TO THIS.
When you select your partner, intodays world, it is better for both.
You can not blame your parents, weather you are happy or not.
In arranged marriage you can blame if you have any problem.
However in both marraiges there are cases of happy and unhappy marraiges. In any case, you have to be willing to give and take, compromise, and feelhappy with partner.
The arranged marraiges are more or less onthe way to out, as more parents are willing to let their children decide.
2006-08-28 01:10:21
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answer #2
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answered by cookiedada 3
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Both have their pluses and minuses. The very best, I think is to love the person who has been arranged. I had that experience. I went to my dad and told him I wanted to marry this guy. He gave me the strangest look and asked me, why him? I told him, and he told me that of all the men in the world, that this one was the one he had already hoped I would consent to marry.
But if I had a choice, I would choose a love marriage to someone my parents approved of. My parents are deceased now, but when I was young I knew they wanted the best for me and wouldn't withhold their consent without a good reason. After all, they had more experience than me and loved me and wanted me to be happy.
I hope I don't sound hopelessly old-fashioned, but even if I do, I think I'm right.
2006-08-28 00:45:14
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answer #3
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answered by huztuno 3
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I feel both are same - even in arranged marraiges these days both boy and girl are given a chance to interact with each other. So i feel that both boy and girl should be defined as to what they are looking in the other partner. If you are more inclined to beauty - see that he/she is handsome. If u r more into peronality beauty - talk with her/him more clearly to understand.
2006-08-28 01:09:11
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answer #4
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answered by Bharadwaj 2
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Which suits your predicament. However, select a partner, arrange marriage and harvest love could be better!
2006-08-28 07:04:20
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answer #5
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answered by mkm 4
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Even love marriages are arranged or programmed by destiny, so go for what comes your way and what feels right in your heart, be it arranged marriage or love marriage so that you can take responsibility of your choices.
2006-08-28 03:11:36
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answer #6
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answered by Abhishek Joshi 5
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Partner by Love.
2006-08-28 01:31:38
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answer #7
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answered by abhishek 1
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What ever it may be but there should be love in this partnership. without love you may not be able to move your life cycle. You can love your arranged marriage wife too and you may hate your love after marriage.(you can find always many examples of this)
2006-08-28 02:41:30
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answer #8
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answered by san_s 1
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By love! If you don't love someone, you aren't going to be happy, unless by a very slim chance the two of you find out you like each other and then fall in love, but that is a slim chance. I would much rather marry someone for love. That way I get to choose who it is, if I like and love them or not, etc. It's not someone else's choice of what or who they think would be right for me.
2006-08-28 00:55:12
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answer #9
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answered by honey 6
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Marriage is a commitment for the life time. That assurence of love and commitment is possible only when you do is AFTER marriage.
2006-08-28 01:27:36
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answer #10
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answered by Anonymous
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