why do females hate on other females so much?

Question

ok, i'm not conceided, i'm confient in knowing that i am pretty and i have a nice body and that a lot of men have crushes on me. so why do girls begin hating on me and start spreading rumors, etc?

why cant you just work on your own appearence and stop worrying about my life and what i'm doing?

Answer 1

U answered your own question...You're pretty and you know it, guys know it and the ones hating know they're not as cute. How many of us go through this daily, I don't know. Maybe we should start a club. It's funny like how many women I hear saying they hate Beyonce, Trina, J-Lo, Mariah, Ashanti...Women who their man thinks is hot. They aren't self-confident at all. These girls work hard on their appearance not to be brought down by haters either. Some of us regular folk work hard on our appearance and get comments like, "She thinks she all that." Or, "Where she goin with that outfit on?" I love the hate comments, please, keep them coming, it tickles me!

Answer 2

It's great that you are confident. So many young girls and woman aren't. They worry a lot about how good they look without having a realistic idea about how great they look without the trashy clothing and heavy makeup.

If you are acting this confident at school, or you actually say something about it, they may be thinking that you are stuck on yourself. It's hard to accept a girl (or boy) who admits that they are attractive at that age when most teens are stuck on how bad they look and how they can make themselves look better.

Mostly, it's just envy and jealousy. The less attractive and popular girls want to be like the pretty and popular ones. Some of them can't see the good in themselves so they take out their misery on others with comments and rumors. If you find that one girl in particular is being nasty, then confront her. Ask her why she is doing and saying the things she does. It could give you a better in site into the rumors themselves. Once started, they are almost impossible to stop. BUT if you can find out who is behind them and why, you might be able to counter them with an intelligent response instead of "Whatever". Try to see yourself through her eyes, and see if you are still as happy with yourself as you are now. You may be putting out some negitive images and not even know it.

As far as working on their own appearences, don't you think that sounds a little cruel? You phrased that as if you think all the girls insulting you are dogs. Conpassion goes a long way. Maybe you could try to be possitive instead of putting them down. This is one of those "Two wrongs don't make a right." They insult you, you insult them, they in turn say something even worse about you, it's a never ending cycle. Either ignore or confront the girls, but don't turn it into a bitching contest. It makes you all look bad.

Try keeping your life out of the public eye if you don't want people commenting on it. Don't get caught kissing in the halls. Don't talk about all of your admirers in front of others. Don't try to dress as sexy and/or seductive as you can. Don't flirt with every guy you come in contact with. Don't steal other girls boyfriends, make sure they are broken up before you move in on him. Don't pile on a ton of makeup or use a lot of hair spray/gel...
I'm not saying you do any or all of these things, but they are some of the most common things that get talked about in a bad way.

Answer 3

There are many reasons why..
The main one of course: JEALOUSY!! Girls get soo jealous because the media puts us in a position where we practically have to be beautiful. Girls that see other pretty girls tend to find them as a threat! they get real jealous. some reasons for jealousy are maybe the guy they like, likes you.. they think you are competition and wayy prettier, so they start hating on you, and many other reasons..

Another reason is self-confidence.. I know that seems like a gay reason, but some girls find that if they hate on other girls it makes them seem superior and better than you. They feel that they have power because they are mean and snobby towards you. Doesn't seem to make much sense, but its true!

Plus, most girls want the spotlight on them. if they see that you are a pretty good with potential of getting guys they want that spotlight...

In my opinion, just be nice to them and dont worry about what they think. You think you are pretty and have confidence in yourself, dont let what they think bother you. If you really think about it, they know you are pretty, that's why they hatin.. so there is nothing to be wrong!! Plus, if they can't be nice and stuff they aren't worth your time if you are being kind!! Just keep living life to the fullest and worry about your appearence. Girls will be girls, i dont think you can do anything about it, except dont pay attention to what thye think!!

Answer 4

yeah!
girls hate girls.
girls are in competition of looks with other girls including their friends.
do you think girls dress up to impress men. they really dress up to impress other girls. why do girls buy those really expensive designers bags? to impress other girls. guys will not notice the difference between a real an a fake bag. The only things guys pay the most attention is the face then the body. then we hope the girl has the personality we would like.

You shold be gratefull that mother nature put you on top of the looks chain and you have little serious competition.

Answer 5

Because thats how girls act. Thats a females human nature.

Girls will generally grow out of it ( if they arent power tripping one eyed jealous monsters that is)...

It IS a matter of jealousy, females used to walk past me and have looked awesome and Ive caught myself giving dirty looks, it is a matter of not knowing how to appreciate someone else. But then you grow up and you learn to appreciate people and when u have done that u see someone that looks awesome and u can say that looks awesome! and not get jealous...

As for hating and rumours? Well thats a different ball game, I;ve never done that but have had people do it to me and yeah its vicious and uncalled for!

I would be careful how you portray your confidence. You may be pretty and u may have a nice body and you may have guys that have crushes on you.. but I wouldnt go out shouting it to the world. It may be confidence, but sometimes quiet confidence is better.
Im attractive aswell but I dont gloat and I dont play it or play on it..
Of course people are going to bag you out if you gloat about it - and it wont be because they are pretty that they give u sh*t it will be because you have a crap attitude about being so attractive. Sounds like you mayb be being percieved as a gloater and thats why people will hate and start rumours.

if u wanna act like a 'winner' be gracious about it. no one likes a sore loser but more to the point NO ONE likes an arrogant winner.

be confident - but be aware of the people around you.

Answer 6

EXACTLY. What's up with that?
It's a total "Snow White" syndrome where the other girl just can't stand the competition.
She NEEDS to be the fairest of them all. Girls can be so mean & petty sometimes.
I dislike it most when they see that someone has an outfit that's pretty or whatever and they give that person the "evil eye" like working some voodoo, lol=P
Ignore them. It ain't worth it. Just be yourself, walk away, move along.

Answer 7

I 2 have wanted to know the answer to this 4 SO LONG!. I mean y hate pretty people its not gonna make them look any better, so i really dont see the point.
Must be PURE JEALOUSLY.. well thats what decision iv come to anyway.. just think though when a girls giving you the evils & hating on you 4no reason its bcuz she knows ur better than her, so just smile & look cute& act like they dont bother u :) makes them more mad haha .
And just try not to do anything thel b able to spread roumers about.

Answer 8

Well I hate to say it, but it does sound like you are a bit conceited and stuck on yourself. So maybe people just don't like your attitude. Not that they are hating on you...They just don't like you for that reason.
There is a BIG difference between being conceited and confident yet humble.

And for the record, I am attractive and guys like me too, but I don't tend to look at it the same way you do. I know some women don't like me, but I don't think it's for the reasons you are saying they don't like you.

Answer 9

me too...i am so hated and i don't know why....and it's about my looks....i don't think i am all that ...but i guess others do...i get very embarrassed when someone says i am pretty or something...i never try to show myself...i am always low key.... but still get the haters....i don't know girl..... I guess, it all boils down to others low self esteem....

Answer 10

Refocus on other good people, dont give hateful people any more time