I had been with five people. He and I had been in a relationship before...and he knew I was the one for him...He waited until he knew I was his for good before ever having sex...Should I feel bad for not waiting for him?
2006-08-27 16:27:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No - your life just as it was brought you to him and if it was any different - even in the tiniest way he wouldn't be in it so never regret your past - it has made you part of who you are and his has made him who he is. At least you will always know what else is out there and that you are confident he is the one for you - and he must know that regardless which is sweet. Be proud of your past and who you are - all of it. :o)
2006-08-27 16:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason you most likely do feel bad is answered in one word- sin. I my self have had sex before I was married but it's against the law that was place internally in you, the law of God. And He says sex out side of marriage is wrong because you join your self or become one flesh with that other person. Feeling bad isn't always a bad thing. Sometimes you have to feel bad before you can heal. The answer is saying your sorry and accepting forgiveness from your fiancee, and from God. Saying your sorry in the end makes everything better. It's an old princible but a pertinent one.
2006-08-27 16:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by poochies girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a good man. He took that step. Sex isn't everything or for true love is not much at all. Don't feel bad. Thats where i was but probly fixing to change some day casue ex ran out when i went to propose i should have never given it up until i was married. Sex, He knows no better He knows no worse :) that is a good feeling if you can obtain it.
2006-08-27 16:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Craig G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but what good would come from beating yourself up all the time? Forgive yourself and allow yourself the freedom to love this man unconditionally and fully as he deserves.Make your marrigae special by doing all you can for him and yourself which includes forgiveness. It sounds like he forgave you already.Learn from your past and then get on with making better decisions. You are very blessed not to have to live with a horrible decision that could have happened from those 5 men!
2006-08-27 16:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time feeling bad about the past. You can't take it back. Just focus on your future together. Good luck with the marriage
2006-08-27 16:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nosy news 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take off the blinders, Lost In The Fog.
2006-08-27 16:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, things happen, no point in regret. Just be sure he knows. I had a similar relationship but did not tell him the truth of how many people I had slept with prior to him. I told him eventually and it altered his perception of me and made him incredibly insecure and jealous. Needless to say, we are no longer together.
2006-08-27 16:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not. Everybody is different. That was very sweet of him though and usually realtionships where one partner is or was a virgin have a better chance than most.
2006-08-27 16:30:35 · answer #8 · answered by BeautyMark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad it's okey. Mayebe both of you were not meant for each other. That's much better coz your fiance is still virgin.
2006-08-27 16:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by richel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you should only feel bad if you slept with the people while you were together. if it was before you got together, it doesnt really matter because it was in the past.
2006-08-27 16:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋