for some reason. me and my man have been going through some prolbems. tonight we go into a big fight.it all started out good. but then i dont know what happend one thing led to another and bam. we were fightin. i made a mistake and cheated on him about 3 months ago. i've begged and begged for him to forgive me and he says he has but every time we get into a fight. he calls me a slut and a ***** and a cheatin liar. and he's even told me ima a wast of his time. then tonight. he started sayin how its over for good not to come crawling back to him and how im staking him cuz i call him more then 3 times a day. and how once agin through my mistake in it. i dont know what to do. i know i made a mistake. but god has forgiven me. and my ex man is not perfict eaither. so what do i do. cuz i know after he gets out of collage tommarow he will be callin me. what do i do
2006-08-27 16:24:11 · 8 answers · asked by cRaZy ~N~ lOvE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He kinda sounds like a dick, but I was once in your situation and despite everything I'm still with that guy after 11 yrs. It did take time for him to forgive me. It does hurt when someone you care about betrays you. But if he can't stop verbally abusing you, the best thing to do is to move on.
2006-08-27 16:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by kimberlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made a mistake and from what u tell us, i believe that u have learnt from that mistake as well.
Now talk to ur guy and tell him that u will not put up with his insults and the next time he does think about insulting you, u'll walk away, and be true to ur word. u will find someone who appreciates you.
2006-08-27 23:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off your relationship with this guy. Cheating on him was bad. But he won't forgive you and let it go. Let him go. The fights aren't worth it.
2006-08-27 23:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him either he forgives you or he doesn't and if he says he does tell him never to through it up in a fight again. If he doesn't forgive you then i honestly say its not worth your time to be called names like that.
2006-08-27 23:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's your fault for cheating on him in the first place, it takes a lot of build up to trust a person who cheated in a relationship. I think you should just move on, and stop cheating.
2006-08-27 23:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but it's over. It's harsh, but you have to deal with it and move on. If he starts calling you, then that would be his decision & you can deal with it then, but I wouldn't count on it.
2006-08-27 23:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so make sure you don't go crawling back to him. If he said it is over, then take that as your cue and walk away.
2006-08-27 23:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move one. learn from your mistakes.
2006-08-27 23:43:38 · answer #8 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋