Im 14, and a girl... But i have been having these sexual feelings that make my belly tingle and they really bother me. Help?
2006-08-27 16:22:53 · 18 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's just natural babe, your growing up and your having these feelings, just don't act on them and go out and have sex, these feelings don't mean that it's time to do that, we all have those feelings from time to time, theres nothing wrong with doing stuff privatley in your room by yourself, but remember this is normal
2006-08-27 16:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all - just relax. At your age you have hormones washing all over the walls and its hard to be able to step back and really understand them. Having feelings like what you describe are normal, what you should be careful of is what you do because of them. At your age, you have so much going for you - and so much so that you don't need to let this issue hold you down and bother you. I know you'll probably think "WHY would I want to do that?!?!" when I recommend that you talk with your mom - but trust me, your parents are your best ally because they went through it too. You will build trust that will last all the way into your adult life - and I can say this because I talked with my family quite a bit and even now I still keep in very good contact. If you feel what I'm saying is helpful you can certainly email me - but I still recommend you talking to your parents first.
2006-08-27 23:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by sean_ahlers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your mother, and possibly make an appointment with the family doctor. What you are feeling may just be the emergence of some new hormones as you are entering your final stage of development, but it could also be something else, so a check should be done.
Remember, it has been less than two years since you entered this stage, and chances are you have just entered. Starting late does not mean you are any less than your female friends, but actually that you may be a part of a new emerging human species with much longer life spans.
This stage in your life last 12 years, so don't rush things, you are only at the beginning. And in case you were wondering, males take 18 years to get through this stage. Sexual activity for teenage males is much more damaging to their overall development than it is for teenage girls, but getting pregnant makes you equal. It increases your chances of breast cancer in your 30s by 1700%. Sexual activity in teenage males increases their chances for testicle cancer.
Have a good life, talk to your mother and make choices in your life that will make her proud.
2006-08-27 23:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the wording & tone of your question, I'll bet you're really a guy who's trying to stir up some sex chat with minor females because you can't get laid. If so, that's pathetic.
If you're for real then talk to an adult woman you can trust, not a bunch of goobers on the internet. There are a lot of sick predators who would love to take advantage of a young girl such as you claim to be.
2006-08-27 23:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly talk to an older woman. I'd say either a cool teacher, councler etc. Coming from someone who went through about the same, it's wierd to talk to mom about it.
But don't worry about it too much, Everyone takes to growing up differently but as long as you never do anything you're uncomfortable with you'll be great.
2006-08-27 23:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough being 14. Your body is preparing for when you're a woman & yet you're still just a child & certainly not ready to become a mother. Other girls are going through the same thing-if possible talk to them or an adult you trust.
2006-08-27 23:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by my two sense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings like that are normal. Is there someone in the family you can talk to about this that knows you better. In order to receive advise about things like this it's best they come from someone you trust, preferably an adult and always remember your family is the best place to go to for advise. They love you and would never hurt you. They would not give you false information.
2006-08-27 23:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girl are getting butterflies in your stomach. It is all natural and normal. When you kiss a boy, that feeling will be there too. Nothing to worry about. It is a normal part of development.
Enjoy those feelings, they don't last long enough.
2006-08-27 23:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Karyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry.Its your age that is doing the trick.Go to your Mother,Sister or to your Aunt and explain this situation of yours.Im sure they will really help you out in this matter.Act fast and dont hesitate or prolong this matter.If you feel shy to talk to your mom,sis or aunt then ask your lady teacher who will be able to help you.But confide only to females, especially whom you can trust.Good luck.
2006-08-27 23:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda need to know why it bothers you and some more details. would love to help. 24 female, and i lost my virginity unfortunately out of stupidity at 14
2006-08-27 23:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by kknpz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋