i need to know. i have asked this question for years. b/c i'm not interested in anybody in my skl who is the same sex as me, thank god, but i don't know. it's complicated, i love a lot of guys at my school though. i don't get turned on by girls, it's i don't know. how do i know if i'm bi? please, this is my age to question or w/e, but please don't make fun of me...i haven't ever asked anyone ever...please help...a website would even be helpful...and jw, is it a bad thing to question this?
2006-08-27 16:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by littlepinksis 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
thanks guys...but what i really need, is like a number, or a website..and also...if i'm bi, then what do i do? i'm going into high school in sept. so i'm really nervous about dating..i don't know...i'm so scared...i thought about telling my best friend, but i am clueless about how she will treat me afterwards...there is a club in h.s., but what if someone laughs? =(
2006-08-27 16:12:13 · update #1
It's pretty normal for people to be bi-curious. It doesn't necessarily mean anything and it doesn't necessarily mean nothing. Knowing yourself and accepting yourself are the important stuff of life. So, relax, and don't panic. You're not a freak. You're just you, a regular person who may or may not be totally straight. If you have a close friend who'd understand, talk about it. The worst is being all alone. If you're not comfortable talking to family or friends, look up a LGBT center in your area. They have support lines you can call, and would welcome you regardless of any sexual orientation. You don't have to be gay to find caring people there, and nobody there will make you gay. That's better than cyber space and much better than feeling all alone.
2006-08-27 16:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically it comes down to who you're interested in "that way." If you would like to be intimate with a woman, then you're either bi or lesbian. As for the whole dating thing goes, just follow your heart. If you fond some guy that you like, go out with him. If a girl turns your head, ask her out. And don't worry about what others will think. There's nothing wrong with being something other than straight.
2006-08-27 17:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck lilsis but I think this is something only you can answer for yourself. Don't worry about not being attracted to anyone at school maybe you just don't want those guys. All the lesbians I have met and discussed sexuality with said that "They always knew". Hope you figure this out.
2006-08-27 16:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by toobadfaya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, it's not bad at all. I think when you just naturally have an attraction to girls, and you haven't been liking guys for a while. That's if you're lesbian. If you're bi...well...you're just attracted to both. You feel the same way about a girl as you would about a guy.
2006-08-27 16:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Naked 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a bad thing to question that. Rent the movie Kinsey because according to him every one has a tendency to think both ways. It is normal to feel that way. I don't know how old you are but you are going to still question yourself for a long time so don't get frustrated.
2006-08-27 16:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give you credit for examining the possiblities of who you are and what you may like at such a young age..so many people are afraid to think this way..in every school there are counselors that are sworn to confidntiality as long as you are not suicidal and they have may have referrals otherwise check your local information and ask for a gay hotline or teen line for the support..
2006-08-27 16:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, littlepink. When you prefer your own sex over the opposite sex for sex, you're lesbo. But if you enjoy sex with both the sexes, you're bi.
2006-08-27 16:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like feel atracted to the same sex. I think you might be if you get turned on by girls, it's ok though.
2006-08-27 16:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, your just probably in the stage in your life were you feel you need to experience stuff even if its just once...well, I am not a lesbo I would say if you really want to know..kiss a chick and see how you like it...lol
2006-08-27 16:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by Daniela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yoiu get turned on watching someone of same sex undress i guess you are
2006-08-27 16:04:20 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋