Why is it that the majority of white american women don't date bi-racial or multi-racial american men?

Question

I'm a very good looking multi-racial american man whose experience has been that most white american women will not only not date me, but they act very distant and avoids me as a plague. This is not only in regards to dating, but with white people in general. Even white men will not try to make friends with me, but yet I see them hanging out with dark skin black men all the time. The same is also true with white/black women, I see them hanging out all the time. Are white women just plain racist? Why do they limit themselves to certain races? Don't they ever think of what they could be missing by not dating me? I have been pondering this question for a long time and now I think it's time for some real answers. I strongly believe that if Iran pushed a nuke on America and it was only myself and a white woman left on this soil, the white woman will not even know how to communicate with me. This is serious! Hummmmm.....Inquiring minds want to know! What do you think?

Answer 1

Just preference I guess.

Answer 2

LOL! No, no no. White women are not all racists. I think it has a lot to do with how a person is raised. If you are raised around many different cultures, then its more likely you will be attracted to people of different cultures and skin types. A lot of it is personal preferance as far as appearance, and a lot of it is compatability. If your not raised the same, if you've been brought up in a way that is foreign to someone else, it may be a little intimidating to some people because they are not familiar with it.

We are talking about a country that is mainly white, here. Maybe that is why it is more common for you to see more white couples together.

Im not racist and honestly Im soo incredibly tired of the race card being pulled all the time. If people would just let it go, it wouldnt be an issue. I cant tell you how many times I have been called racist just because maybe I looked at someone the wrong way. I dont know, maybe I was cock-eyed (lol! it edited it! What in the world??) or something, but I tell you, that race card gets played way more than it needs to.

I have been physically attracted to asians, light-skined blacks, native american types, middle eastern looking types...all sorts of people. I think it just boils down to personal preferance and a certain comfort level based on how well you can connect with someone outside your race. Everyone is different.

Just dont forget that most of the US is white when you make comments like that.

Answer 3

First of all, is there a paper on this or is it just a life experience question? Life experience is the most telling for you. I beleive that in todays world, race does not matter. There are borders, I must say. It depends on where you reside in the United States. England, Europe, Japan, seems not to have a problem, wonder why. Generally the U.S. South has that problem. Wonder why. All I can suggest my friend is to press on. Hang at a new place. Did you ever consider your 'come home with me' line? Maybe that needs work. Good luck.

Answer 4

Sometimes it is negativity from the parents. When I was in high school I was forbidden to date Greek boys. I did however attend dances, etc., and had a great time. For whatever reason, my dad did not trust them. He was wrong because they were perhaps the nicest guys of all. It was okay for me to date rich guys but I gotta tell you...they were the worst of all. A black man, was not even a consideration as I would have been disowned. Now I am older...I look at Tiger Woods and say WOW!

Answer 5

My observations have led me to conclude otherwise with regard to your question. I live in southern california, a very multi-ethnic location in the U.S. and very liberal one at that, and I see the reverse happening down here, especially among the young white populace. White American women are seen dating several non-white males, especially those of darker skin pigmentation; I am referring to black males or affluent hispanic and/or asian males. Now, my opinion is that skin color is no barrier when it comes to appreciating another individual, and I am not against someone of a particular people group marrying someone of another people group. I do, however, have something against several young white women in our society seeking men of other skin color either just for sexual gratification or like they say in the street, are in it for the money or the fast cars. To the friend that posted the question I will be personal, maybe it is time for you to stop seeking out all women of white skin color with darkened souls and to find yourself either a nice darker skinned mate with purer heart and intentions if not a light skinned, respectful mate that likes you for who you are. My friends, if you ever find yourselves becoming in love at first sight, take a good second look inside and see the truth behind the cover.

Answer 6

america is mostly a white country so that is what most people are used to seeing and are attracted to. that is why you dont see many white women dating mullato,asian,bi-racial,or hispanic men.

however you see non-whites going after whites on a daily basis. white men and women are considered a higher status to most minorities and it is sad.

these non whites that have white girlfriends or white boyfriends act as though they are tropheys just because they are white.

Answer 7

in maximum situations, Korean females whose dad and mom are divorced, have a tendency to screw around extra with foreign places adult men. in spite of the shown fact that most of the older era thinks that Korean females who connect with foreign places adult men are elementary, drink alot, screw around in Western bars in Itaewon, Hong dae etc, the countless youthful era is commencing as much as replace into extra fascinated in interracial relationship. For some reason Korean adult men are people who get uptight whilst they see an American with a Korean lady, in spite of in the event that they are not a pair. i'm a white American who became married to a Korean for 6 years IN Korea, and became somewhat ill of the stares by using indignant inebriated adult men at night, and stupid comments made at the back of our backs interior the subway or bus, and each physique questioning my spouse became a participant. yet in reality, maximum Korean females you meet in a bar will basically be finding for a rapid one nighter, or they only broke up with a bf. I swear it somewhat is the case maximum folk of the time. they are somewhat dramatic. Be arranged. in case you pick to fulfill a constructive "clean" lady, connect a Korean subculture/Language team, or investigate some relationship websites. you have a extra useful risk in assembly a nicer female, who won't conceal you from her dad and mom, or friends. (this could be an elementary situation to boot)

Answer 8

It could be that they are trying to preserve their race, People like your parents and now obviously you are trying to eliminate the white race by mixing it with colored races.

Answer 9

Maybe it is your personality.

As for you, Chubby... If natural selection is a fact, you are doomed due to stupidity, so enjoy it while you can.

Answer 10

It must be your winning personality.