What to do about my friend?

Question

ok here is the thing. i like him. i told him about 4 months ago and i liked him since last year and i just told him again. he said "its really okay with me" nothing else.... i dont think he cares and usually he's very nice to me in particular. and we use to be so close on the phone and internet. but now its just when we go out. he offers to buy stuff. and lend me money. and i actually broke up with a few guys for this dude. i mean even one night we were up sending perverted texts. over 50 of them. and he tells me anything. but now it feels like we're drifing

tell me whatever you can about my situation. i know its complicated but tell me what ever you think and feel i should know

please try to add advice! thanks

he's just so nice to me. and i tried talking to him. but never could. and he also helped me alot when i was down, needed support, and when i was dumped.

Answer 1

I don't know enough but it sounds like you're drifting coz things are awkward now. Something hasn't happened the way one or both of you think it should...so now he's distancing.

Could be wrong. Like I said, I don't know the whole story.... Only you can answer what is going on...and of course so can he. You should ask him.

Answer 2

Let him buy you stuff if he is offering. Play a little hard to get though. Guys love a challenge. Just take things slow and you'll see how things turn out soon enough. What's really imp is that he treats you right when you're with him. Who cares about the phone or the internet. Some people can't talk or write freely maybe because of an audience at home. Good Luck. Don't worry.

Answer 3

Instead of telling him you like him and waiting for him to say the same back, print out this message you posted and show it to him. Tell him that you want him to be more than a bank (if that's true). But also make sure that if he doesn't feel the same, that he understands that you two can still be friends.

Answer 4

I've had these problems before, just sit him down, or text him, or write him, tell him that you really like him... tell him that you've broken up with guys for him because your love is so strong... and tell him you want to know how he feels.... he might say that he likes you back, maybe he doesn't, but that's just Gods way of saying that he's got someone better suited for you.... talk to me [e-mail]

Answer 5

You are thinking too much and wasting wayy too much time. If you want to step this relationship up a notch, then talk to him not a group of strangers online. Tell him you want exclusivity with him, you want him to be your man, and what does he think about that? If he hems and haws, you got your answer. Can you deal with whatever he tells you?

Answer 6

I would just come out and ask him what he thinks about me, and if he tells you something you want to hear than tell him, but make sure he's listening, some people really an't listening. But if he had no interest, than he wouldn't be paying for nothing.

Answer 7

sounds like you guys are just flirting, and thats as far as its going to get. if he wanted a relationship, he would have done something about it already, like ask you out. you should move on because you're wasting your time with this guy. thats what i think... :) good luck!

Answer 8

find another 1 with heart

Answer 9

a serous talk with one another is what you need... and i know he will tells you what you want to know... after all he is still your friend and who knows he likes you the same...

Answer 10

MATBE HE'S BEING A GUY.DOESN'T WANNA GET TIED DOWN..WHAT IS IT THAT YOU REALLY WANT FROM HIM THAT YOU CAN'T GET FROM THE GUYS YOU BROKE UP WITH ? STAY FREE ,ENJOY LIFE AND FREEDOM...