it would bother me,I think.....
2006-08-27 15:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it depends. i would if he did it EVERY time we had sex. i would probably beginto think i wasnt enough to turn him on. once in a while is ok.
2006-08-27 15:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I am very confident in the bedroom, so I know that my man is satisfied beyond his wildest dreams. He is a very highly sexed man...(as most of them tend to be), and as long as my own sex life is not suffering at all as a result of him reading or watching this stuff I have no problem with it. Also I make sure he knows that I am accepting of things that some women are not, to create a sense of understanding and acceptance, so that hopefully he'll feel that he can always confide in me with regards to the taboo subjects. Surely feeling that your man doesn't feel comfortable enough to confide his private thoughts and desires with you, is worse than his desire to look at this stuff. Maybe if you got more involved in this area of his life, (I don't mean for you to find your local Porn Star Production Company or anything, just maybe show some interest and understanding...) he would naturally decrease his need to see it elsewhere...
2006-08-28 00:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by SierraSydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man looks at porn God takes the desire away from her to be with her husband !! Then he freaks out and wonders why ..he winds up comparing his wife with the filthy women on those porns. To most of you couples that watch "porn" let me ask you this Is this not what drives couples to CHEAT ?? Then God will remind you ..oh!!!!!!! You thought porn was cool well now do you still think it's "hot" ? When two people are really in LOVE the sex is awesome you dont need porn. My man told me I must act like a good little wife during the day and be a WHORE in bed at night ! Next day he asked me for sex I said "PAY ME" he said well give me a kiss and I extended my hand out & said give me $ 20.00 !lol This is all porn does is invite "trouble" !!
2006-08-27 23:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldn't feel betrayed because as he's watching the pornography he's also learning some things to use on you, or rather use when you all have sex
2006-08-27 22:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by msknowledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It became a problem for me and my ex husband. He was a OTR truck driver and became totally addicted to it. In turn, when he came home he thought that our sex life should be just like in the pornos. HA! I don't even have a chandelier to hang from!
2006-08-27 22:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I just see it as an insult. It's one thing if you want to watch it together and have fun with it, but it's different if he needs it just to be able to mess around with you.
I'd hope I could get my man hot and horny myself. I'd hope that he wouldn't need to look at some bimbo with fake **** and too much make-up just to get a stiffy to then use it with me.. YUCK!
2006-08-27 23:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by Michii_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather he look at porn than go to bars and have real contact with the females. I don't care where he gets his appetite so long as he comes home to eat.
2006-08-27 22:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to look at pornography, there is not a lot you can do about it. It's just pictures and representations not real people.
Some women just like pornography.
2006-08-27 22:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jane N Hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel betrayed if he did it behind my back without telling me.
2006-08-27 22:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
betrayed?
maybe not betrayed more like insulted
2006-08-27 22:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by longfellow j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋