Okay Last night, I found out that one of my friends sister got sexually molested by her step-dad I only talked to her face to face about twice but she seemed like a quiet nice person, When I thought of this I cried! I cried everytime I thought of that sick thing that happened to her, am I a wuss or just have a soft heart? and would you cry with me for her shes only 14! and hes been molesting her since she was 7! her brother walked in on them! Please tell me if It's okay for me to cry....
2006-08-27 15:34:33 · 23 answers · asked by E.F. Landeros 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ps: He is in Prison now
2006-08-27 15:41:27 · update #1
Of course its ok to cry. It means that you are an empathetic person. There should be more people like you in the world.
2006-08-27 15:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Dasher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something like that - of course it's OK to cry.
It's also OK to get sick.
Please tell me it's been reported to the police and the scum bag is in jail, and that there is a restraining order forbidding him from being anywhere near her.
He needs to go to jail for a long time. Oh, and in a maximum security prison, child molesters are the lowest of the low, and prime targets for other inmates.
2006-08-27 15:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by kids and cats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a soft heart, and care for others. It is okay to cry for sad things, even if they aren't happening to you directly. Absolutely okay to cry. I have alot of compassion for others as well, I know how you feel. I hope things will be better for the girl now that this is exposed.
2006-08-27 15:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by rottymom02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its most definatley ok to cry. I would have been furious, and most likely lost my temper on him next time i saw him. If he has been doing it 7 years, he knew it was wrong.. next time you see him... I don't think anything will be mad about whatever you do... personally i would at least give him a lesson to remember... a kick to the groin might be nice... or maybe just knock him out.. maybe something more painful... I cant believe what he did... i'm so sorry it happened to her
2006-08-27 15:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - do more than cry though. Is this girl safe from this situation? If not encourage her to seek help to end this.
This kind of thing is way more common then you think - finding a trusted adult to tell is the first part in putting a stop to it.
2006-08-27 15:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! Cry if that's what you're feeling. Empathy is a wonderful thing. Bottling up something that you feel that strongly is likely to cause some emotional turmoil down the road. Let it out.
2006-08-27 15:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Arrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay to cry. i hope some one has reported this to the police or else she will suffer even more. and as for u. God bless u for having such a pure heart. i hope u dont think of it too much. u have to take care of ur mental health. itd ok to cry when u feel like crying and whoever calls u a woss is a woss themselves
2006-08-27 15:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...it's OK to cry...... That is a terrible thing that happened to your friends sister.... her step dad is a big zero and should be put away for years for his sick actions.... against a child of only 14.
"O" Wise One......says he needs to have his balls removed...
2006-08-27 15:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to cry. only humans can cry like we do.i admire you for having that kind of heart i really really think it's okay to cry. im surprised though, but it's fine. i hope things will be okay for the girl.and for you as well coz if you wont get over it you might be depressed. just control your crying okay, you might get carried so terribly and affected so much you'll be the one that people will cry for.good luck
2006-08-27 15:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess is just you way of dealing with knowing this happens to people we see on a daliy basis, and it's been for so long....if you can take action, make a difference in her life..she's not a little girl anymore, and she could get pregnant or something worse could happen, so if you can take action, talk to her mother, and if her mother knows but doesn't do anything about it.....take legal action, this is just not something to feel bad about, it is something serious.....
2006-08-27 15:39:15 · answer #10 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋