she doesnt have a BF and she is really close to my heart.. i just dont know if i should ask her out or not can anyone help me pls???
2006-08-27 15:23:36 · 14 answers · asked by krazy guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wow, such a caring guy.....go for it....show her you care.......and love her....you don't have anything to loose except time....good luck.....if you need anymore help e-mail me through yahoo answers.......:)
2006-08-27 15:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you must do a reality Q with yourself before asking her.. And only you can answer it, how would you feel to be with her and her baby when he/she is born? I'm taking for granted that you're interested in your friend for a long term.
No matter how much she loves you, once the baby is born a big part of her concerns will be for the baby. And you have to consider that you will need to be a role model and a carer for the baby. In an ideal world, the biological father would pay and take care for the baby/kid/teen, but if he's out of her life and won't take responsibility, you will probably need to do that. Not out of legal obligation, but the kid will be part of you too.
If you're OK with this, and you think that you love her, go ahead. I really wish you the best, just don't ask her to spend some time and thinking that you can dump her later.
Good luck!
2006-08-27 22:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by Roberto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, tough situation. Are you ready to take on her baby as well if you become seriously involved? She is vulnerable at this time, so I hope you will be careful of her feelings.
I think the best thing you could do is find reasons to hang out with her. Talk to her, see if she needs help around her place, show her you have interest in her well being. Let things take a natural course. Be there for her, and if a relationship comes from it all it was meant to be. I wouldn't try to push her in her condition, and I wouldn't want to stress her in any way either. I would say take it real slow for now.
Good luck.
2006-08-27 22:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she feel the same?
do you want to help her with the baby?
do you feel you could love this baby as if it were your own?
do you love her or think you could?
do you want to take care of her?
does it bother that she is pregnant with another mans baby?
if you answered "yes" to all or most of the first 5 questions and no to the last question then i say go for it. she needs a sweet guy who will stand by her side during and after this time(believe me i know) : )
2006-08-27 22:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by storm_magus3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u mean she is pregnant? if u did well i will answer this with a lil story
my son met his girlfriend (wife now) when she was pregnant he always liked her but she would never want to go out with him..because she didnt know how to tell my son she was pregnant....so when she finally did it didnt matter to him he stayed with her and since then adopted the baby that is now 5 years old...just ask her out to lunch and tell her how you feel about her....thats the best thing to do ....but remember she is pregnant you have to realize she comes with a package now...and make sure you will be willing to stay with her...and not hurt her down the road
2006-08-27 22:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach the matter as just trying to be there for her. if she is going through this alone then she will definitely need you and your support. and if you show her you can handle things like a mature grow up person who genuinely wants to be in her life and that of her child then she would be crazy to not want to be with you. Good luck
2006-08-27 22:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by pmemommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you like her, and you know that she is not with anybody, ask her just like you would somebody that is not pregnant. I am sure that she would love to go out. Being Pregnant and not having a boyfriend might make her feel like she is never going to get to date again, and she might be feeling down and you just might make her day...Good Luck...
2006-08-27 22:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... u want to go out with her even though shes pregnant?? well if you really care about her, and u want to be the new babies daddy, then by all means go ahead and just pop the question.
2006-08-27 22:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by keet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her tht u're sincere and tht the child would only bring u guys closer
2006-08-27 22:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the fact that she is pregnant to another man doesn't bother you then you should tell her how you feel, you never know you might be surprised?
2006-08-27 23:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by mrsnoitallnosenothing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋