while back i saw this video on drink driving with class and this guy lost both his best friends in a car accident because of his drink driving and that tore me up that night, and my brother getting into a fight with his friend hurt me terribly and he leaving for graduate school hurt reallly badly as well (all this meaning i cried for these reasons) and when ym friend broke up with his girl, cried for that too. is there a good reason for this?
2006-08-27 15:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Science & Mathematics ➔ Biology
You are a sensitive and caring person, that's all.
2006-08-27 15:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Computer Guy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a biological perspective.
It's an intelligence thing. Being able to put yourself in someone else's shoes as it were allows you to out think them. An advantage if you're competing with someone and want to trick them or avoid their tricks.
The price of that is the ability to feel what it would be like to be in someone else's shoes. Not really a disadvantage, but a strong incentive not to screw people over for your own ends. Which is an advantage among social animals given the individuals survival depends on the groups overall success.
2006-09-01 02:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by corvis_9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey there is nothing wrong with being a sweetheart. I mean crying over a guy that lost his 2 best friends hit you hard... And losing a family member around the house is gonna be a change... honestly... I think you are a person that doesnt like change... maybe... just maybe you are scared of change... Just a thought....
2006-08-27 15:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by butterscotchbabi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's called love. When you feel love for those around you, when they're happy you're happy and when they hurt, you hurt. God loves each and every one of us, and he has instilled that same love in us. The Bible says that because God has shown His love for us by sending His Son to pay the debt for our sin, we should in the same way show love to other people. God also hurts anytime one of us suffers, and if you know what it feels like when you love someone and see them suffer or hurt or hurt you, imagine what God feels like when we disobey Him and cast Him aside out of our lives.
John 3:16-17
"For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him."
2006-08-27 15:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by teowin2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very sympathetic and very sensitive person. I bet you cry in sad movies, too. There's nothing wrong with it but if u are extremely sensitive , try to re-evaluate your life as u just mirror everything from ur own deep seated sadness.
2006-08-27 15:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is their a reason for you not feel, or is their a reason within you that triggers such emotions, maybe deep inside your heart, their is spot that has yet to be confronted by you. Nobody never said you cant feel for others, but it never hurts to try to feel for you inside your own heart, to understand what connects you more than others.
2006-08-27 15:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are a compassionate and caring person.
Many of us were raised on the old "Boys don't cry" principle, which is why some misguided people think that men who cry are weak, and most women think that men are emotionless zombies.
2006-08-27 15:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I'd say your emotional. Its not a bad thing. You just empathize with people very well. Too well in fact.
You have to keep in mind though that people have to deal with their problems. Let people be and let them live their lives. There's nothing you can do about life but live it.
When bad things happen to people you just have to deal with it, learn from it and let it go.
2006-09-02 19:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a really emotional person and you feel other people's pain. Sometimes when people see others crying it makes them cry too. You feel bad for them.
2006-08-30 22:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by helenptrvc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a kind hearted person, just be careful you don't get too caught up. It's good to care, just don't lose yourself.
2006-09-03 16:46:37 · answer #10 · answered by knujefp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. You have a heart. Try not to let it get the best of you.
2006-08-27 15:24:55 · answer #11 · answered by jymsis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋