My friend still obsesses over him!?

Question

One of my friends is constantly obsessing over her ex boyfriend, which she broke up with!( year ago) She gets really jealous whenever I talk to him, because, hey, he actually likes talking to me. He hates her, and told me he only dated her for pity. ( She asked him out like 30 times before he agreed) And he is always telling her to like go away and she thinks he still likes her. She needs to wake up! The only reason she broke up w/ him is for attention. She is such a drama mama. And now she has to deal with the consequences. Well, he talks to me and she gets jealous. And she knows i'm in love w/ another guy and she has a class w/ him. So she's all like " he talked to me and...'' etc. etc. It's like we get it all ready! She needs to get over herself. Am i right? I mean, I can't help it if her old boyfriend is attracted to me and not her
( attracted friend wise).

So, should I tell her she's being retarded or let her ex boyfriend tell her to get over him and stop wasting her time?

Answer 1

Tough question but, let the boyfriend do it, she will then get over him faster. if you just tell her that she is retarded she wont get over him.

Also is this girl a friend to you? If not this shouldn't matter.

If she is a friend just tell her you and that guy are just friends.

Answer 2

i think people like her wont listen specially to you whom she's jealous of. you know any explanation wont be enough to wake her up. if i were you i'l just go with my life for as long as you're not doing any harm to anyone go on. if she'll be sick about you and her ex then that's her problem with herself, and i advise you not to bother yourself also with her personal problem coz it's useless really.
i have a friend who's like that i really thought about her for about a week and it didnt get anywhere so just never mind really

Answer 3

....Blah, blah, blah.........You are so Immature!!! Learn now to mind your own business in relationships. Don't speak for anyone else. Don't try to control other peoples behaviors. And, for heavens sakes, if it is not your problem to solve......don't try to solve it!!! Allow others to take responsibility for their own problems!!!