ok we used to spend alot of time together well his friend opened a pool hall lastweek and everythin was fine at first know things are weird he used to stay with me every weekend last weekend he stayed one day and then he called one day out of the week well then things started messin up like he wouldnt answer his phone well something happened bad wenesday and he came by here at like 3 am he held me told me it would be ok he loved me and everything well then i didnt hear from him thursday and then friday he was with 2 girls and 2 other guys well they got pulled over and everyone got arrested but him well he called me as soon as they got pulled over and told me he told me he loved me and he would be here soon well everyone buthim got arrested so the girls got arrested to well he got here everything was perfect he held me told me he loved me all night well then we woke up had sex again and he went home well i tried callin him later right everyones out of jail and he wont answer his phone
2006-08-27 15:06:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you want to find out how a guy feels about you DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT HE SAYS. LOOK AT WHAT HE DOES. Guys will say anything, but do they follow up. His behavior has changed. Don't worry about losing him, you don't have him. Three months is not long enough to establish a serious committment. He's not committed to you. He'd rather be with his friends at the pool hall. You're a booty call. That means he comes when he wants sex. I find it strange that he is the only one that didn't get arrested. I think he is lying. Why are you calling him all the time and he isn't calling you. You sound desperate and anyone can recognize desperation and play you. You are desperate for affection (hugging) and attention. I'd be surprised if you grew up in a loving home. You don't explain yourself well. Focus on going to school and developing yourself so you'll have more than sex to offer a man. Get a good job. Then he'll be calling you.
2006-08-27 15:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont want to disappoint you but it sounds like he wants you only when its convenient for him. It's nice to hear the words "i love you" but it's even better when they show it. Does he do anything to show his love for you? Coming over at 3am is pretty disrespectful if u ask me, especially when he doesnt have the descency to come and see you the whole week. He can make time for his friends but not the woman he loves?? come on? Do you really want to spend your whole life with a guy like that? You deserve better than that. And if you have a child/children, what kind of father figure is he going to be? Think about that. Good luck hun.
2006-08-27 22:24:27 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl42562 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay that was confusing to read. It sounds to me like you don't trust this guys actions. If you don't trust his actions, you have to listen to yourself and talk to him about it.
Do you think he's using you for sex? What do you do when you are together, other than sex? I'd be really second guessing a guy who pops in a 3am unannounced.
Play his game. Don't see him. If he comes over, don't answer the door. Don't answer the phone. If he walks away without a second thought, you've answered your own question.
2006-08-27 22:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl please! move on before he give u something that he got from the pool hall girls clearly hes just using u. u must be nice to him and he want to keep a good girl on his team what has he done for u besides make u wet? wake up and find someone who wont miss treat u like that besides who r u? a doge ball? dump his butt and dont call him dont answer the phone and stop giving it up seems thats all he wants
2006-08-27 22:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that he may like one of those girls that were arrested. i would sit down with him and ask him why he hasn't been himself ask him if there is something wrong (non-relationship related) ask him if he has feelings for anyone else, than ask him how he feels about us. that will help depending on what he says and the way he reacts to the questions. good luck in this, its not always easy but if you ask and receive answers from him try to be understanding.
2006-08-27 22:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was he the only one not arrested? He's just stringing you along. He's not answering his phone because he's probably boinking some ho. Just let it go and move on. Let him go shoot pool in a pool hall and troll for ho's.lol
2006-08-27 22:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices m'dear-confront this guy with a no-nonsense,upfront,in yer face approach,and get straight,truth full answers,which you can check,or consign him to the recycle bin....and delete the file.Remember,there is police stuff involved in this,do you really want that at your door?Thought not-nuff said then:-)
2006-08-27 22:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is not a life time commitment
If you are having problems already then get out of the relationship- besides you are the one he is hanging onto when there isn't any fun to have elsewhere.
2006-08-27 22:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are too fast to conclude things.. imagine, in just 3 months,you are already hooked with that guy!!! well i strongly suggest that even you get involve to that serious things, still remember that the guy is still a stranger to you and that strangers are not the persons which you can give your full self.... Know him better I'll say!!!Ã
2006-08-27 22:17:09 · answer #9 · answered by myoga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. that was totally confusing. have you tried reading that over? you like told the story twice except with more detail the second time. anyways, can't you get the hint? he WAS into you and now he is done with you. don't you feel like crap? you shouldn't be wasting your time with this guy.
2006-08-27 22:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋