this guy i've been dating for awhile he likes to plan when we will have sex like we will be talking and then he will say ok we will do this thursday night or we will do it monday and then he will expalin every detail of what he's going to do to me.......do guys do that? why is he like that? he's a marine and i asked my friends if it's normal and they say it sounds controlling because he's a drill instructor....when he's talking like that he talks soft not in a controlling way he doesn't use the drill voice
2006-08-27 14:53:02 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's obsesive compulsive great for training purposes. He makes a plan and then sees it through, and he won't rest until he does. Its all that military training. Its not a bad thing, if you want to get used to it. The great thing is that he will always keep you informed, the bad thing is No he is not like most guys, most of us dont plan sex, we just take it where and when we can get it. good luck.
2006-08-27 15:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like to plan things out because they feel they have more control over the situation. Some people don't feel comfortable being spontaneous. I think you should sit down with our boyfriend and explain things. Tell him it's odd that he does this and make him experience something spontaneous one time. . . see if things change.
2006-08-27 15:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rockerbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really normal. But i guess its just what he likes, he like to plan when he has sex and what hes gunna do to you. Maybe hes trying ot turn you on and get you excited about whatever night your gunna do it.
2006-08-27 14:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds obsesive. i can never stand that no matter what. and u guys r just dating. next he will tell u what to wear eat sleep when where and how. dump him while u have time,.he sounds like bad news
2006-08-27 15:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's weird
2006-08-27 15:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friends are right, he is just use to giving orders thats all, if your not confortable, you should talk to him about it.
2006-08-27 15:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds weird to me
2006-08-27 15:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by dugbuggy22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a little weird... kinda sexy though. and a marine, i think it kinda sounds hot...
2006-08-27 15:22:11 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope,datz real strange
2006-08-27 15:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋