What do you usually do if your boyfriend or husband is depressed and is crying alot?
2006-08-27 14:28:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have never had that problem but if he did l would be depressed too
2006-08-27 14:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Squaw 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - it really depends on why he's depressed or crying.. is he in mourning for someone? Has he lost a job? Is he a teenager or an adult? Is he going through a rough patch right now, or has this been going on for months?
More than anything, you need to find out WHY he is depressed/crying - and then deal with that issue at its source. Some vitamin B wouldn't go amiss either, as it's really helpful to regulate mood.
2006-08-27 14:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by ceekryt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a hug, hand him some tissue and tell him to blow his nose. Then try and calm him down so we can communicate.
Usually when my hubby is depressed I have to play 20 questions
with the man in order to get any info from him.
2006-08-27 14:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like to complain or show emotions during those kinds of situations, but I know him so well that all we need to do is look at each other and I understand what he needs.....Guess it comes from being together almost 10 years and having the same birthday, we're in tune with each other....soul mates.
2006-08-27 14:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Redhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been with my husband for 8 years. I have seen him cry one time. frightening isnt it? But, if he were to cry alot, I would ask him what is wrong, try to help, listen, be there for him, etc...
2006-08-27 14:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by dixiechic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've only been in that situation once, i took him to the beach(workout that negative energy) went for lunch,when we got home i bathed him, just baby him for a bit but at the same time make him feel like a manly.
2006-08-27 14:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by killbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of emotional guys.
Look at his background is his family very affectionate
Or maybe something is bothering him
If you love him you'll stick by him you would want him to the same for you!
2006-08-27 14:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by soundlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to get mad until I started to read and learn there was a problem... He was put on Paxil and he is fine now....Men go through changes also with there hormones and some need med's also for depression, so get him to go get a checkup....this can lead to suicide sometimes so don't let it go to far.... good luck...
2006-08-27 14:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in that kind of situation. I guess I would hold him and let him cry and talk it out.
2006-08-27 14:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in that situation but, I wish I could help ya with that. I guess comfort him, take him to a doctor, get medicine. be strong for him.
2006-08-27 14:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋