i n my bf have known each other since 4 yrs. 1st yr v were 2gather n since last 3 yrs he is in a diff country n im in a diff country. as much as i understand n trust him. i dont mind him talking to other girls. but he can't c me talking to other guys. he himself says im very possessive abt u. how should i make him less possessive? wat shold i do, tell or try to make him understand?
(i dont mind if he is possessive to some extent. but he wont eat, he'll not do his everyday stuff properly n some how interrupt his routine in a bad way. n wont tell me that he did all this coz of wat reason. n i dont want him to do that by the feeling of possiveness.)
thanks for answering :)
2006-08-27 14:28:07 · 5 answers · asked by bjm_116 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i think that its ok to ttalk to other guys as ong as its on a friendship level all you can do is reassure him that you love him and him only and that you should be able to talk to other guys
2006-08-27 14:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by june 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who trusts you and allows you to be yourself without guilt tripping you into acting in the way he sees fit.
in my experience it's the possessive ones that become abusive and if they are worried about you doing something wrong that is usually what they are doing behind your back.
run fast, run far
2006-08-27 14:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sort of behavior now leads to worse things..he has to know that u don't "belong" to him... and him bein posessive doesn't mean he loves u sooooo much it just means he wants to control u sooooo much....I think u should let him go...there's no love there
2006-08-27 14:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by Darsh(Say it like u mean it) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get away from that guy ASAP!
2006-08-27 14:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him
2006-08-27 14:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Unknown_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋