Seriously. I know this may sound silly, but I am having no luck whatsoever with attracting me. I also have a yahoo360 page so you can view more photos there.
I'm educated (getting my master's), funny, and a good friend. Everyone says the usual "you're so pretty!" or "you're a great person! you'll find someone eventually!" I'm really just looking for casual dating, but I can't even get to that.
So what's wrong? Should I lose more weight? Do my hair differently? Get colored lenses? Because being myself is not working!! :-) Thanks!
2006-08-27 14:21:01 · 13 answers · asked by Thaelia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seriously. I know this may sound silly, but I am having no luck whatsoever with attracting me. I also have a yahoo360 page so you can view more photos there. http://360.yahoo.com/profile-.0ekiJ08YrXtlSi2_xKhbH1N?inv=Ri_Uhi5n&r=
I'm educated (getting my master's), funny, and a good friend. Everyone says the usual "you're so pretty!" or "you're a great person! you'll find someone eventually!" I'm really just looking for casual dating, but I can't even get to that.
So what's wrong? Should I lose more weight? Do my hair differently? Get colored lenses? Because being myself is not working!! :-)
Thanks!
2006-08-27 14:33:26 · update #1
http://360.yahoo.com/profile-.0ekiJ08YrXtlSi2_xKhbH1N?inv=Ri_Uhi5n&r=
2006-08-27 14:33:45 · update #2
Lovely and smart.....you got to get out more strategically. Put up your 360 link on your profile.
2006-08-27 14:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say " Because being myself is not working!" I beg of you not to change yourself for a man.
You are the way you are for a reason and eventually some man will see this and approach you. Good things come to those who wait. I am a female and I think you're very pretty. You shouldn't have to change yourself for attention. Where I live, I am sure you'd get attention. So just, lay back and forget about it.
Relationships usually tend to happen spontaneously when you're not looking.
Best Wishes.
2006-08-27 21:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya! I'm in the same boat. But, I wonder what the answer is myself. Some say that love will find you when you least expect it. And, then there are those that say you have to go out and get what you want. So, I wish you luck. I don't think you should change anything about yourself. Your man just hasn't come along yet. God is working on him right now. Sorry he needs so much work! hahaha JK
2006-08-27 21:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by flysidekk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from what you have said about yourself, men are more than likely intimidated by you. You have to answer 1 question do you love yourself and do you think you should change your physical appearance? I think you are pretty and don't think you should change a thing and that is coming from another female. Good luck to you and I am sure your prince charming awaits.
2006-08-27 21:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by awagner1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carrisa
You are beautiful and smart...What kind of guys are you hoping to attract and where are you looking? Maybe you are looking in the wrong places.
Finding love is not about physical beauty, which I am sure you know. It makes a nice package but I have seen beautiful, blonde bombshells who open up their mouths and nothing but ugly spews out.
Don't be in such a hurry to kiss a bunch of toads, sometimes they are hard to get rid of. Then you have a bunch of toads around your feet. hahahaha
Be careful where you are looking. eharmony.com commercials are so inviting and sweet.
2006-08-28 10:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably you are intimidating, how tall are you?
....i was just like that (but with a wonderful boyfriend) before we met, guys tend to stay away, being 6ft, very attractive, very independent, strong minded, active, athletic... blah blah blah,[not being conceited)....and the Angelo came, he was the only one,...the only thing i did was smile to him, and he came after so many rehearsals (he claims)
...you don't want a weak person you need someone that can keep up with you
YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE AND FROM UR PIX, U SEEM NICE, IF U WANT TO TRY OUT WHAT YOU LISTED YOU CAN, BUT I KNOW THAT A SMILE IS ALL IT TAKES AND TOOK FOR ME
2006-08-27 21:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look great! It is all about where you are looking. Try to get more involved with things you are interested in and you are sure to find a guy with your same interests.
2006-08-27 21:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by abl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very pretty! Don't change one bit. I know everyone says it but you'll meet somebody when the time is right.
2006-08-27 21:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Curious1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You look great!
I would suggest online dating. I think it may open up your options more.
2006-08-27 22:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by hrmom02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a very attractive woman, Tonya. No joke!
2006-08-27 21:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋